Q&A Are these Ground Rules Sufficient to be Safe from the Affair Partner?

Question

By way of background, I have lived through 4 D-days within a 2 year time span.. The last D-day was late June when I discovered my husband was having an affair with his assistant director.

With this last discovery, we surrendered to the reality that my husband is a sex addict. With the help of his personality and position he has used available women, outside of our social circles....except for the last one. With the blow of this last discover...