Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How to Survive Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Problem with Forgiveness Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Power of Small Groups Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 1062 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A My Husband is Having Urges 11/05/2014 Q&A Unfaithful Spouse Continues Contact with Affair Partner: When is Enough, Enough? 11/05/2014 Q&A Addiction, Meetings, & Lack of Commitment 11/05/2014 Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Wants me to Forgive and Forget 11/04/2014 Q&A Intrusive Thoughts Preventing Rest 11/04/2014 Q&A Hurt Spouse Contacting the Affair Partner 11/04/2014 Q&A Intrusive Thoughts and Triggers 11/04/2014 Surviving Infidelity: Poor Recovery Decisions of Unfaithful Spouses - Part 2 10/23/2014 How to Not Make Things Worse: Community Poll 11/06/2013 It Seems I've Missed the Mark 8/13/2013 Achieving Real Change, part 4 1/01/2013 How to Change, Part Three 12/18/2012 Pages« first‹ previous…141516171819202122