For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 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Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 1267 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Do You Suggest When the Unfaithful Spouse Seems Numb? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Get over What I Don't Know? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do You 'Feel' Emotions without Letting Them Control You? 1/22/2018 Q&A Why Do We Choose to Stay with Someone Who Has Wounded Us So Deeply? 1/22/2018 Q&A Why Do I Feel The Way That I Do? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Do Addictions Play into That Sequence of Recovery? 1/22/2018 Q&A Why Does My Mate Still Think about the Affair Partner? 1/22/2018 Q&A Are There Any Tools or Strategies to Help Overcome The ‘Addiction’ of the AP? 1/22/2018 Q&A Do I File for Divorce to Protect Myself and Possibly Wake Her Up? 1/22/2018 Q&A Why Is the Unfaithful Trying to Take Advantage? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Do I Overcome Being Repulsed by My Husband? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Do We Re-establish a Sexual Relationship? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Long Does It Take the Unfaithful to Stop Thinking about the Affair Partner? 1/22/2018 Q&A What Do I Do When There Are No Actions behind the Words? 1/22/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What My Mate Was Thinking? 1/22/2018 Q&A What Should I Do?” 1/22/2018 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Personally Do to Discourage a Persistent AP? 1/22/2018 Q&A What Do You Do When You Spouse Refuses Help and Wants Divorce? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Do I, as the Betrayed, Learn to Love My Mate Again? 1/10/2018 Q&A If Relapse Continues, Does the Effort by the Betrayed Even Matter? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Forgive Myself for Transmitting My Pain? 1/08/2018 Q&A What's the Normal Length of Time People Refrain from Sex after Discovering Infidelity? 12/06/2017 Q&A When Is Enough, Enough? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Communicate My Need for Safety in Recovery? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Do You Get That Special Place Back Again? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Communicate the Importance of Being Real and Authentic? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Connected to Me? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Proceed When My Spouse Isn't Safe? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do People Truly Move beyond This Pain? 11/28/2017 Q&A When We're Being Sexual, How Can I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head? 11/28/2017 Q&A What Will It Take for My Mate to Face Reality? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Know This Hasn't Happened Before? How Can I Know It Won't Happen Again? 11/28/2017 Q&A Why Can't I Begin to Move past This? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Effectively Communicate My Pain? 11/22/2017 Q&A Why Would the Unfaithful Shame the Betrayed? 11/22/2017 Q&A How Do I Forgive the Affair Partner? 11/22/2017 Q&A Do I Accept My Mate Wanting a Divorce, or Do I Fight for the Marriage? 11/22/2017 Q&A What Should I Do If Things Are Getting Worse Rather Than Better? 11/15/2017 Q&A Is My Spouse Really Trying to Disconnect from the Affair Partner? 11/15/2017 Q&A How Do We Break the Barrier between Us When the Unfaithful Says He Isn't Sure He Wants to Be Married? 11/15/2017 Q&A How Can Two Seriously Broken People Move Forward? 11/10/2017 Q&A If I Continue to Have Sex with My Spouse, Am I Letting Him Use Me? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Long Is Normal for Him to Grieve the Affair Partner? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Stop Getting a Sense of Security from My Anger? 11/10/2017 Q&A If He Had the Affair, Why Do I Feel Like the 'Bad Guy'? 11/10/2017 Q&A Is This Normal, or Is My Spouse a Sex Addict? 11/10/2017 Q&A Can Medication Prevent Me from Properly Grieving the Loss? 11/01/2017 Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can You Create Safety When the Affair Partner Is a Co-Worker? 11/01/2017 Q&A What's the Difference between Sorrow and Regret? 11/01/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…161718192021222324…next ›last »
