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Text Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy 11/28/2023
Video Community for Healing from Infidelity – Affair Recovery 11/22/2023
Text Affair Recovery: The Number One Question and How to Answer It 11/15/2023
Text Forgiving Infidelity: The Gift of Forgiveness 11/07/2023
Text Did You Marry the Wrong Person? 11/01/2023
Text Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 10/24/2023
Text The Betrayed's Reaction: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 10/18/2023
Text Surviving Infidelity: 6 Things I Wish I'd Known 10/11/2023
Text Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 10/04/2023
Text The Importance of Wisdom Following Infidelity 9/27/2023
Text Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders 9/20/2023
Text How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 9/13/2023
Text How Do You Deal With Anger After Infidelity? 9/06/2023
Text The Fight to Forgive 8/30/2023
Text Relapse: Why Can't You Stop? 8/23/2023
Text A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey: Rewriting the Past After Disclosure 8/16/2023
Text My Spouse Had an Affair: What Should I Do Now? 8/09/2023
Text Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 8/02/2023
Text The Antidote for Shame: Understanding the Unfaithful 7/26/2023
Text Is Ambivalence Common When Healing from Infidelity? 7/19/2023
Text How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity? 7/19/2023
Text Stuck? Three Methods to Get Moving in Infidelity Recovery 7/12/2023
Text Denial and Recovery After an Affair 7/05/2023
Text Recovering From Infidelity Pain: Are They Lying About ‘Why’? 6/28/2023
Text Hope for Healing Excerpt: 'Is My Life Out of Control?' 6/21/2023
Text Discovery: Why Do I Want to Know? 6/14/2023
Text Discovery: Processing the Details of the Affair 6/07/2023
Text Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 5/31/2023
Text How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/24/2023
Text Affair Recovery Steps: How to Live Without Fear After Infidelity 5/17/2023
Text What Is the Cost of Forgiving Infidelity? 5/10/2023
Text When to Save a Marriage After Infidelity 5/03/2023
Text Your Brain on Porn and Understanding the Sex Addict 4/26/2023
Text Why People Cheat: Were They Predisposed to Cheat (Part 2) 4/12/2023
Text Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 4/05/2023
Text Discovery: Part 4 - Goals for the Betrayed 3/29/2023
Text Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery 3/22/2023
Text Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 3/15/2023
Text Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 3/08/2023
Text Healing from Infidelity: Going it alone 3/01/2023
Text How Could You? Part V - The Secrecy Factor 2/15/2023
Text How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 2/08/2023
Text How Could You? Part VI - Dehumanization and Blame 2/02/2023
Text How Could You? Part III: Moral Justification 2/01/2023
Text How Could You? Part II: The Thought Processes That Lead to Betrayal 1/25/2023
Text How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 1/18/2023
Text Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel? 1/11/2023
Text Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 1/04/2023
Text Revenge: Responding to an Affair 1/02/2023
Text Ever Wonder Why Men Cheat and Why Women Cheat? 12/14/2022

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