All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Problem with Forgiveness Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 4912 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Handle My Husbands Thinking? 7/11/2018 Mickey and Stephanie's Mentor Video 7/06/2018 Q&A Is There Something Wrong with Me? 7/06/2018 Q&A Why Is My Wife Still Friends with People That Helped Hide Her Affair? 7/06/2018 Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Taking Recovery Seriously? 7/06/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband Who Is Ambivalent and Distant? 7/06/2018 Q&A How Can We Restore Our Sexual Intimacy? 7/06/2018 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Us in Our Communication? 7/06/2018 Q&A Do You Think It Is Important to Confess Infidelity to Parents? 7/06/2018 Q&A How Can We Get out of This Destructive Cycle? 7/06/2018 Q&A How Do I Show My Spouse That I Am Truly Trying to Regain Their Trust? 7/06/2018 Q&A Is This Another Form of Justification and Blame Shifting? 6/27/2018 Q&A How Can I Let Go of My Resentment? 6/27/2018 Q&A Could a Polygraph Help Us Move Forward in Our Healing? 6/27/2018 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Mate to Come out of Limerence? 6/27/2018 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for the Betrayed Moving through Discovery? 6/27/2018 Q&A Should How Do You Restore a Loveless Marriage after an Affair? 6/27/2018 Q&A Should I Consider Separation? 6/27/2018 Q&A I'm Beginning to Lose Hope, Should I Stay or Should I Go? 6/27/2018 Q&A Do You Really Believe God Created Marriage to Make Us Miserable? 6/27/2018 Monotonous Monogamy and the Emotional Affair 6/27/2018 The Infidelity Divorce Syndrome: Divorce Recovery After Infidelity 6/21/2018 Q&A Should We Separate for a While? 6/15/2018 Q&A Can You Give Us Guidance on Reaching Full Disclosure? 6/15/2018 Q&A Will the Respect I Had for My Spouse Come Back over Time? 6/15/2018 Q&A How Can We Protect Our Safety Protocol While Traveling? 6/15/2018 Q&A Do I Need to Get a Divorce? 6/15/2018 Q&A Are There Boundaries That Need to Be Followed as an Accountability Partner? 6/15/2018 Q&A How Do I Trust That I Truly Have All the Information? 6/15/2018 Looking for Safety: Harboring Hope 6/12/2018 Q&A How Should I Respond to My Wife's Feelings about Saving the Marriage? 6/08/2018 Q&A Do You Have Additional Resources for Overcoming Gaslighting? 6/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Unfaithful Wife Figure out Why She Had the Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A What Is the Difference between the ‘Right Person’ and the ‘Right Fit’? 6/08/2018 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Interact with the Family Members That Helped Hide My Mates Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A What Should Our Next Step Be? 6/08/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Husband Won't Believe Me. How Can We Reach Full Disclosure? 6/08/2018 Q&A Why Does My Husband Act like I’m the One with the Problem? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle My Husbands Relapse? 6/07/2018 Q&A What's the Difference between Feeling Remorse for Causing Me Pain and Having Remorse for Being with the Other Person? 6/07/2018 Q&A What Does Forgiveness Look like after Multiple Relapses? 6/07/2018 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Unfaithful Mate through the Recovery Process? 6/07/2018 Q&A Why Do I Feel like I Want to Leave When My Spouse Is Doing the Right Work? 6/07/2018 Q&A Is It Possible That He Is Being Truthful? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust and Become Vulnerable Again? 6/06/2018 Q&A Can Someone with Self-Awareness and Boundaries Still Relapse? 6/06/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Spouse Wants Me to Contact the Affair Partner. What Should I Do? 6/06/2018 Q&A Can a Wife Ever Get over Her Husband Having Sex with the Affair Partner in Their Home? 6/06/2018 Q&A Is Acknowledging and Working on the Unconscious Brain Important? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Clean up the Financial Mess His Affair Has Created? 6/06/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…434445464748495051…next ›last »
