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The Power of Small Groups 4966 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can We Move Forward with This Lack of Trust? 10/02/2019 Q&A How Should I Handle My Husband's Lack of Transparency? 10/02/2019 Q&A Should I Allow My Husband to Choose His Polygrapher? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Is Being Honest When Discussing the Affair Partner? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Move Forward Knowing I May Never Have Fulfilling Physical Intimacy with My Wife? 9/26/2019 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Healing from Suicide after Disclosure? 9/26/2019 Q&A Is It Best to Just Keep Information about the Infidelity between the Two of Us? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Can We Restore Our Relationship with Our Children? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Break Their Destructive Cycle? 9/26/2019 Q&A Why Isn't My Husband Able to Be Vulnerable with Other Men? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Sex Addict Husband Pouting Because I Do Not Want to Have Sex with Him? 9/26/2019 Q&A Can Sex during Recovery Have an Adverse Effect on Our Healing? 9/26/2019 Q&A Does Every Man Masturbate like This? 9/26/2019 Q&A Is There Hope for Our Marriage in This Circumstance? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Safe through All of This? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Manage the Losses of Everything My Husband Gave Away? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Will I Know If It's Safe for My Spouse to Move Back in with Me? 9/26/2019 Q&A Do I Need to Have My Mate Move Out? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Safe about My Husband Having Female Friends at Work? 9/26/2019 Q&A Is My Situation a Common One? 9/26/2019 Q&A Will We Ever Have a Healthy Marriage? 9/26/2019 Q&A What Is Sexual Imprinting and Its Impact on Sex in a Marriage? 9/26/2019 Q&A Did My Spouse Affair Down? 9/26/2019 Q&A As I Move Forward in Recovery, I Feel That I No Longer Love My Mate. Can You Provide Direction? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome This Overwhelming Trigger? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Survive If I Have to Live with the Affair Partner? 9/18/2019 Q&A Should I Put a Hold on the Divorce If My Mate Is Willing to Participate in Hope for Healing? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal When I Don't Have Resources in My Area? 9/18/2019 Q&A Am I Dealing with a Spouse Who Has OCD or Is a Narcissist? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Can I Heal in This Situation? 9/18/2019 Q&A What Applications and Filters Do You Recommend to Keep Us Safe? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Do I Make Sense of My Mates Relapse? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Do I Return the Honor and the Innocence of Marriage to My Husband? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Do I Let Go of My Doubts and Hyper-Vigilance? 9/18/2019 Q&A Do All Men Compartmentalize? 9/18/2019 Q&A What Matters More in Recovery, Intention or Impact? 9/18/2019 Q&A Will Seeing a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist Cause More Harm Than Good? 9/18/2019 Q&A Is It Possible to Recover to Quickly? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal from My Mates Suicide during Recovery? 9/18/2019 Q&A What Do You Recommend for Our In-House-Separation? 9/18/2019 Q&A Why Would the Wayward Spouse Compare Their Pain with My Pain? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Can I Trust What the Wayward Spouse Is Disclosing to Me? 9/18/2019 Q&A Is It My Responsibility to Initiate at This Point in Our Healing? 9/18/2019 Q&A Should I Cancel My Polygraph Due to My Anxiety Level? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Long Do I Wait for the Wayward Spouse to Be Emotionally Available? 9/18/2019 Q&A Am I Controlling My Spouse or Is This the Appropriate Way to Set Boundaries? 9/18/2019 Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Let Go of My Regrets? 9/18/2019 Q&A At What Point Do You Give up on Your Spouse? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Show Grace without Being Taken Advantage Of? 9/13/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…262728293031323334…next ›last »