For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Does Time Heal All Wounds? 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Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 1245 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Mate Won't Make Amends? 11/22/2019 Q&A At What Point Do the Thoughts, Feelings, and Mental Pictures Go Away? 11/21/2019 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe after My Mates Relapse? 11/14/2019 Q&A Can My Mate Ever Be Safe Again? 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Get over Never Knowing When the Affair Started? 11/13/2019 Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Truly Believes They Do Not Have a Problem or Addiction? 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Recover from a Double Betrayal? 11/13/2019 Q&A Will My Husband Ever Stop Thinking of His Affair Partner? 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Extend Grace to My Wayward Husband 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Wrap My Head around This When Nothing Seems to Fit Our Situation? 11/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal from Losing My Family Unit? 11/05/2019 Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for Overcoming Comparison Thoughts? 11/05/2019 Q&A Do You Recommend That I Try to Convince My Mate to Push through Our Healing and Recovery? 10/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Protect Myself While Working Towards Healing? 10/23/2019 Q&A What Do I Do If My Wife Still Wants to Spend Time with Her Accomplice in Her Affair? 10/23/2019 Trauma from Infidelity: An Interview with a Specialist 10/23/2019 Q&A Why Did My Mate Take the Affair Partner to the Same Places He Has Taken Me? 10/16/2019 Social Shame Survey Results: What We Learned from Ashley Madison 10/16/2019 Q&A Should I Allow My Husband to Choose His Polygrapher? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Manage the Losses of Everything My Husband Gave Away? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Can I Trust What the Wayward Spouse Is Disclosing to Me? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Long Do I Wait for the Wayward Spouse to Be Emotionally Available? 9/18/2019 Q&A What Would You Recommend for Spouses Who Lose Their Mate to Suicide during Recovery? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Intrusive Thoughts That Came as Result of Recording and Listening to My Mates Conversations with the Affair Partner? 9/13/2019 Q&A Should I Have the Wayward Spouse Break off the Affair in Front of Me? 9/13/2019 Q&A Does He Need a Consequence to Fully Recommit? 9/13/2019 Q&A Is There Something Wrong with Me Because I Still Love in Spite of All This? 9/13/2019 Q&A Why Is My Spouse Having a Difficult Time with Empathy When I'm Hurting? 9/11/2019 Q&A Why Can't My Spouse See How They Could've Prevented Their Affair? 9/04/2019 Q&A How Can I Address the Anger and Defensiveness Coming from the Wayward Spouse? 9/04/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Continued Obsessive Thoughts about the Affair Partner? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Could My Wife Feel so Connected with the Affair Partner and Not Think the Sex Was Better with Them? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Is This Not about Me? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Wayward Spouse Continues to Contact the Affair Partner? 8/28/2019 Q&A Is It Possible to Restore the Marriage If the Wayward Spouse Wants Divorce? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Open up about Their Affair? 8/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle the Betrayal by My Mate’s College Aged Daughter? 8/23/2019 Q&A How Do You Heal When the Wayward Spouse Cannot Recall the Details That You Need? 8/23/2019 Q&A Should I Tell My Husband That I Know More Details about His Affair Than I've Led on To? 8/23/2019 Healing After Infidelity: What Doesn't Work. 8/21/2019 Q&A What Recommendations Do You Have for Overcoming the Sexual Part of the Affair? 8/20/2019 Q&A How Can I Persuade My Husband That the Affair Partner Is More Than Just a Friend? 8/20/2019 Q&A Are My Doubts and Feelings Normal? 8/20/2019 Q&A I Feel Stuck in the Shame of What I've Done. How Can You Help? 8/14/2019 Q&A Is It Wrong for Me to Accept My Husband's Comfort? 8/14/2019 Q&A Is It Healthy for the Betrayed to Know Intimate Details about the Affair Partner? 8/14/2019 Q&A How Do I Deal with a Charismatic, Controlling, Narcissistic Man? 8/14/2019 Q&A Why Can't We Talk about the Affair Partner with out the Wayward Spouse Shutting Down? 8/14/2019 Q&A Should the Wayward Wife Be Rewarded by Taking My Choice Away from Me Many Years Ago? 8/14/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Confronting His Affair Partner? 8/06/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…101112131415161718…next ›last »
