For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How to Survive Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 1267 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can My Wife Become Disentangle from the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Get Complete Disclosure on How Deep This Sex Addiction Goes? 4/30/2019 Q&A Why Isn't My Wayward Spouse Pursuing Me? 4/30/2019 Q&A Is It Possible That My Spouse Never Blamed Me for Their Actions? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Discern What Is True in All of This? 4/17/2019 Q&A How Do You Know When You're Done? 4/10/2019 Q&A When Do You Give up on the Marriage? 4/10/2019 Q&A Is It Safe to Stay with Someone Who Hasn't Fully Disclosed the Affair? 4/10/2019 Q&A Why Am I Struggling with Compassion and Understanding? 4/10/2019 Q&A Am I Deceiving Myself? 4/10/2019 Q&A Why Is the Wayward Spouse Continuing to Justify Their Actions? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Husband to Tell the Truth? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Reoccurring Reminders? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for the Wayward to Fight for the Marriage? 4/03/2019 Q&A Will I Ever Feel Okay in My Own Skin Again? 4/03/2019 Q&A How Can I Visit Certain Places without Being Triggered? 3/27/2019 Q&A How Do I Forgive the Unforgivable? 3/27/2019 Q&A How Do I Know If I Can Trust My Own Judgement? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Long Will the Triggers Continue? 3/20/2019 Q&A Why Am I so Concerned About the Affair Partner? 3/20/2019 Q&A Is This Blame Shifting? 3/20/2019 Q&A Should I Try to Make Amends for My Part in the Failed Recovery? 3/13/2019 Q&A Why Is My Resentment Growing? 3/06/2019 Q&A How Can I Believe That My Mate Really Loved Me during Their Affair? 3/06/2019 Q&A How Does a Betrayed Spouse Get past the Hurtful Words Said by the Wayward Spouse? 3/04/2019 Q&A How Can I Cleanse My Body and Heart? 2/22/2019 Q&A Am I Stuck? 2/20/2019 Q&A What Am I Dealing with When It Comes to My Wayward Spouse? 2/20/2019 Q&A Did My Trust Contribute to the Infidelity? 2/20/2019 Q&A Why Is the Wayward Spouse Questioning My Fidelity? 2/20/2019 Q&A Is My Mate Still in Limerence? 2/20/2019 Q&A Am I a Hypocrite for Staying? 2/13/2019 Q&A Why Is the Timeline of the Affair so Important to Me? 2/13/2019 Q&A Why Does My Husband Use Distraction and Blame to Get Himself out of Owning What He’s Done? 1/30/2019 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 1/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Know He Really Wants Me and to Save Our Marriage and Not Just Save His Image? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal When Time Has Been Taken from Me? 1/28/2019 Q&A Is There Any Reason to Still Be Here? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Love Again for the Wayward Spouse? 1/16/2019 Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Pursuing Me? 1/16/2019 Q&A Should I Give My Mate a Second Chance? 1/16/2019 Q&A Do I Save Myself or Save the Marriage? 1/16/2019 A Betrayed Spouse Chimes In - How I Recovered After My Husband's Infidelity 1/16/2019 Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Choosing to Stay? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Deal with Comparison to the Affair Partner? 1/09/2019 Q&A Am I Expecting too Much? 12/12/2018 Q&A How Do I Know I'm Not Paranoid? 11/28/2018 Q&A Should I Tell My Mate That Their Affair Partner Tried to Contact Them? 11/28/2018 Q&A What Happens When the Wayward Refuses to Get Help? 11/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Confront My Mate about Their Porn Use? 11/21/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…121314151617181920…next ›last »