Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? 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Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 1069 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is it my Fear or my Gut Causing me to Not Believe Him? 1/11/2017 Q&A How can the Betrayed Cope with the Continual Lying? 1/11/2017 Q&A How Can I Keep Getting Back Up? 1/11/2017 Q&A Am I Wrong to Use History to Confront Current Behaviors? 1/11/2017 Q&A Why is his Anger Growing and How Can I Help? 12/20/2016 Q&A When do I Say I'm Moving On? 12/20/2016 Q&A I want Recovery to Work, but Things Aren't Changing. Will it Get Better? 12/16/2016 Q&A Are these Requests Appropriate for me to Ask for? 12/16/2016 Q&A What are the Options Available Without Full Disclosure? 12/16/2016 Q&A How do I Handle my Wife's Lack of Empathy? 12/16/2016 Q&A How can my Wife and I Handle my Lingering Feelings for my Affair Partner? 12/16/2016 Q&A He Contacted the Affair Partner and Lied About it. What do I do? 12/07/2016 Q&A How Can We Heal from Her Affair Under these Circumstances? 12/07/2016 Q&A Can we Fully Recover from Her Affair Without Moving Our Family? 11/30/2016 Q&A How do you Enforce Boundaries Short of Separation or Divorce? 11/30/2016 Q&A What are the Signs to Watch for to Know a Liar has Stopped Lying? 11/30/2016 Q&A Should 12 Step Work be a Requirement for a Sex Addict Wanting to Salvage the Marriage? 11/30/2016 Q&A What Are Reasonable Expectations for Me Being Married to a Sex Addict? 11/30/2016 Q&A Is it OK for Me to Say No Even Though it May Make Things Worse? 11/30/2016 Q&A Have you Seen a Marriage Recover from this Kind of Affair? 11/30/2016 Q&A What Can You make of All This? 11/30/2016 Q&A How do I Deal With 'His and Hers' Affairs? 11/30/2016 Q&A Why Can't He, and Will He Ever, Understand My Pain? 11/30/2016 Q&A What Concerns Should I Have at this Point in Our Recovery from His Affair? 11/30/2016 Q&A What is Protocol for a Couple in this Post Affair Scenario? 11/30/2016 Q&A Should I Inform My Children of their Mother's Affair? 11/30/2016 Q&A Can I Heal the Relationship With My Best Friend After Her Cheating With My Husband? 11/23/2016 Q&A How do We Combat the Marathoning? 11/23/2016 Q&A Where is the Line that Makes a Relationship an Affair? 11/23/2016 Q&A How do We Deal With Chronic Pain, Medication Addiction, and Affair Recovery? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Work Through Resentment and Commit Back to My Mate? 11/23/2016 Q&A Can a Sex Addict Simply Choose to Not Act Out? 11/23/2016 Q&A Can You Please Explain Marathoning? 11/23/2016 Q&A What Are Some Practical Steps or Books to Help With Fantasy Life? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Face the Triggers I Receive from His Workplace Reality? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Safely Break off Contact Between Our Kids and the Affair Partner? 11/23/2016 Q&A Since the Affair Story Still Hurts Him, Should We Let Sleeping Dogs Lie? 11/23/2016 Q&A What Rules Should We Follow During Our No Contact Separation? 11/02/2016 Q&A Should I Confront My Mate With the Evidence of His Relapse? 11/02/2016 Q&A Should I Demand My Mate Take a Polygraph? 11/02/2016 Q&A In this Situation, Should I Inform the Affair Partner's Spouse of Risky Behavior? 11/02/2016 Q&A How Can I Share My Anxiety and Concerns With Him? 10/24/2016 Q&A Is it Normal to Relive the Days During the Affair to Rewrite History? 10/24/2016 Q&A Did I Forgive Too Soon? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Many Times Should I Give Him Another Chance? 10/24/2016 Q&A Why Would He Do this After Already Inflicting so Much Pain? 10/24/2016 Q&Aqw How can the Unfaithful's Claimed Intentions be so Drastically Different from their Actions? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Know if My Unfaithful Spouse is Truly Committed to the Marriage and Recovery? 10/24/2016 Q&A Will it Ever be Safe to Not Have Safe Sex With a Cheater? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Heal From the Affair in the Midst of Ongoing Trauma? 10/18/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…101112131415161718…next ›last »
