Trauma of Infidelity
Infidelity is a unique type of pain and carries with it unique emotional consequences. Find solutions and suggestions for healing from the devastating effects of betrayal here.
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Video Q&A How Can I Get past the Deceit and Betrayal? 8/29/2018
Video Q&A Do You Have Advice for Handling Addiction along with Infidelity? 8/29/2018
Video Q&A How Can I Stop the Intrusive Thoughts? 8/29/2018
Video Q&A Are Marriages More Likely to Dissolve During the First 6 Weeks of Discovery? 8/22/2018
Video Q&A What Keeps My Betrayed Spouse from Acknowledging Her Lack of Safety in Our Relationship? 8/22/2018
Video Q&A What Do I Do When My Mate Stonewalls for Days? 8/22/2018
Video Q&A Was My Husband in Love with His Affair Partner? 8/22/2018
Video Q&A Will My Husband Ever 'Get It'? 8/15/2018
Video Q&A How Can I Let Go of the Hurt from What My Spouse Shared with the Affair Partner? 8/08/2018
Video Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Trauma to My Husband? 8/08/2018
Video Q&A How Can We Heal Our Marriage and Create Safety with Family Members? 8/08/2018
Video Q&A Is There Hope for Us? 8/08/2018
Video Q&A Are Things beyond Repair? 8/08/2018
Video Q&A Why Can’t I Let Go of the Past? 8/08/2018
Video Q&A How Are You Supposed to 'Enjoy' Your Mate When There Is so Much Anger and Pain? 8/08/2018
Video Q&A Is There Hope for Us? 8/01/2018
Video Q&A Is Our Relationship Too Broken? 7/23/2018
Video Q&A How Can You Ever Get over Triggers When They Are All around You? 7/23/2018
Video Q&A How Can I Overcome My Triggers in the Curriculum? 7/23/2018
Video Q&A What Do I Do with Triggering Pictures? 7/11/2018
Video Looking for Safety: Harboring Hope 6/12/2018
Video Q&A Am I Stuck in the Healing Process? 4/11/2018
Video Q&A How Do We Heal When My Spouse Has No Empathy for Me? 2/28/2018
Video Q&A Why Is His Perspective of Us and of Love Getting Worse? 1/23/2018
Video Q&A How Do I Cope with the Deception? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Get past These Incredibly Painful Feelings? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Handle Forgiveness When the AP Is a Family Member? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A Will This Pain Ever Let up over Time or Will Seeing This Constantly Keep Us All from Healing? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A Does the Betrayed Spouse Have to Know Every Affair in Order to Heal the Marriage? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Handle the Trauma of Infidelity? 9/27/2017
Video Q&A Will EMDR Help with This Notion? 9/06/2017
Video Q&A What Do You Recommend in My Situation? 8/16/2017
Video Q&A What Can I Do to Help Me with My Anxiety about the Affair Partner? 8/10/2017
Video Q&A Why Can't I Get over the Affair Even Though My Husband Is Doing All the Work to Rebuild? 8/10/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Manage My Triggers? 7/26/2017
Video Q&A When Will My Husband Visualize Himself with Me Instead of Seeing Me with the AP 7/26/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Partner with Their Flooding? 7/26/2017
Video Q&A With Multiple Discoveries over 2 Years, How Do I Know She's Told Me Everything? 7/19/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Handle Comparison with the Affair Partner and Changing My Mindset of My Self-Worth? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Am I Being Emotionally Abused since His Affair? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Can You Give Specific Suggestions to Handle the Locations of the Acting out with the Affair Partner? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A What Safe Questions Can I Ask to Regain Our Openness but without Causing Me Pain? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Get past My Negative Self Image? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Why Has New Information Been Such a Major Setback for Me? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel I Can’t Get Past His Infidelity? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A What Do I Do Now to Cope and Heal from His past History? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Bitterness and Anger Coming Back after Giving Birth? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Heal from the Dishonor of His Sharing My Secrets with Her? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A Is This All Part of the Process or Is It Something Else? 6/07/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Overcome Her Shame? 5/26/2017

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