Welcome

As past participants, we want our walks through infidelity to bring hope, inspiration, and courage to your own journey.
, 9 years 1 month ago

Samuel discusses what safety is and why it's needed for recovery.

, 9 years 1 month ago

Thanks to Paula Rinehart's book, Strong Women Soft Hearts, I learned what forgiveness was and what it wasn't.

Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for women dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

, 9 years 1 month ago

Samuel wraps up this series by discussing more barriers that couples face after the discovery of infidelity and how to overcome those barriers and choose to get healthy.

, 9 years 1 month ago

Samuel continues this series sharing more barriers that keep couples from committing to get healthy after discovery infidelity.

, 9 years 1 month ago

Committing to get healthy doesn't mean committing to save the marriage. Today Samuel begins a short series on reasons why couples typically won't commit to getting healthy.

, 9 years 1 month ago

How I discovered my own vulnerability along with some of the most important advice I can offer to betrayed spouses.

Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for women dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

When Godly People do Ungodly Things: Arming Yourself in the Age of Seduction by Beth Moore

, 9 years 1 month ago

Samuel discusses the mind of the unfaithful and how justification has to play a part in understanding why spouses cheat.

, 9 years 1 month ago

During recovery, you just don't feel ok sometimes, let's discuss this fact and how to cope with the uncertainty of infidelity.

, 9 years 1 month ago

Samuel discusses one of the most difficult aspects of the unfaithful's recovery: underlying resentment.

, 9 years 2 months ago

Samuel discusses how a couple moves forward understanding their own vulnerabilities in recovery.

, 9 years 2 months ago

Samuel discusses the many facets of recovery that both the unfaithful and betrayed just don't know or realize early on in recovery.

, 9 years 2 months ago

Joining a small group meant letting people in on our secret and allowing them to see our mess, but the benefits far outweigh the risks.

Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for women dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

, 9 years 2 months ago

Today Samuel discusses the seemingly never ending challenges to recovery for both spouses.

, 9 years 2 months ago

Today Samuel discusses how the betrayed spouse may not be reacting, but they are always processing the actions of the unfaithful spouse.

, 9 years 2 months ago

Today I want to talk about establishing countermeasures which will prevent each spouse from doing any more harm to one another.

, 9 years 2 months ago

Today we complete the discussion on trust with 2 final principles of recovery for restoring trust over time after betrayal.

, 9 years 2 months ago

Samuel discusses why you don't need trust to move forward in recovery.

, 9 years 2 months ago

Today I share both my healthy and unhealthy reasons for staying and how they saw me through to the other side.

Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for women dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

, 9 years 2 months ago

Samuel continues the discussion on safety and how to cultivate a safe atmosphere for you and your spouse's potential recovery.

, 9 years 2 months ago

Today we start a new series on how to trust your mate and know if your mate is trustworthy after an affair.

, 9 years 2 months ago

Samuel discusses the drive home before disclosure, deciding whether or not to tell Samantha about his affair.

, 9 years 2 months ago

Often times spouses want to make a decision about their crisis right this moment. However, when dealing with infidelity that approach usually backfires.

, 9 years 2 months ago

Today let's discuss the concept of denying your reality in recovery and how dangerous this denial can be.

, 9 years 2 months ago

Today I share my top three biggest struggles early on in recovery.

, 9 years 3 months ago

One of the lies the betrayed spouse believes is that they will always feel the way they do at discovery. Today, I share the story of two trips and how feelings can change.

Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for women dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

, 9 years 3 months ago

Often times in recovery, betrayed spouses are frustrated as their unfaithful spouse won't take action. Today, I offer ways to deal with this refusal to get help.

, 9 years 3 months ago

In recovery after an affair, we all hear voices. If you're just listening to your own voice, it may be continuing to blind you.

, 9 years 3 months ago

Leading up to an affair and in recovery afterwards, there is much self deception that takes place. It's the toughest of deceptions and can't be battled alone. Today I look at how to combat self deception and allow yourself to see the truth you didn't allow before.

, 9 years 3 months ago

It's a destructive pattern for either spouse to say how they would describe themselves if they were on the other side of the affair.... Today we'll talk about why.

, 9 years 3 months ago

Have you ever said to yourself, "I thought my marriage was fine....I thought we were doing great."? Infidelity has a way of uprooting our entire life's momentum and today I discuss how to move forward practically.

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