All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Problem with Forgiveness Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 4912 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Should I Give My Mate a Second Chance? 1/16/2019 Q&A Do I Save Myself or Save the Marriage? 1/16/2019 A Betrayed Spouse Chimes In - How I Recovered After My Husband's Infidelity 1/16/2019 Q&A How Can We Reconnect While Living Apart? 1/09/2019 Q&A Have We Both Betrayed Each Other? 1/09/2019 Q&A Do You Have Resources to Help with Connection? 1/09/2019 Q&A When Should a Betrayed Spouse Stop Pushing for Answers to Questions? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Choosing to Stay? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do We Manage Safe Boundaries with a Child from the Affair? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do We End Our Separation? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Deal with Comparison to the Affair Partner? 1/09/2019 Q&A Why Isn't My Wayward Husband Interested in Me Sexually? 1/09/2019 Q&A Why Does the Affair Partner Continue to Attempt Contact? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Balance Processing Everything without Becoming Overwhelmed with It? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do We Overcome Secondary Issues and Address the Infidelity? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Can I Regain Trust after so Much Deception? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do We Overcome Same-Sex Infidelity? 1/09/2019 Q&A Why Is the 'Why' Often Never Fully Discovered? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety When Anonymity Is a Requirement in 12 Step Programs? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome My Jealousy? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle New Details That I Remember? 1/03/2019 Q&A How Can I Explain the Difference between Being Faithful to Your Spouse and Unmet Sexual Expectations? 1/03/2019 Q&A What Should Our Next Step in Recovery Be? 1/03/2019 Q&A Why Do I Feel so Attacked When My Wife Brings up My past Infidelity? 1/03/2019 Q&A How Do You Grieve? 1/03/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal My Self-Esteem? 1/03/2019 Q&A How Can We Make Our Intimacy Special Again? 1/03/2019 Q&A How Can We Overcome This Lack of Transparency? 1/03/2019 Q&A What Is the Best Way for Us to Cope with This Trauma? 1/03/2019 Q&A Is It Safe to Give Our Marriage Another Chance? 12/14/2018 Q&A Why Have I Chosen Destructive Relationships in the Past? 12/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Find the Motivation and Strength to Continue Trying When My Mate Is Stuck in Anger and Rage? 12/14/2018 Q&A How Should the Betrayed Handle Multiple Discovery Days? 12/14/2018 Q&A What If I Don’t Feel Guilty? 12/14/2018 Q&A What Is the Next Step for Me? 12/14/2018 Q&A Do I Just Need More Time to Grieve? 12/14/2018 Q&A Is Mentoring Another Form of Pimping? 12/14/2018 Q&A How Common Is It for Financial Devastation to Accompany Infidelity? 12/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Prepare for My Mates Polygraph Results? 12/12/2018 Q&A How Do I Help Our Son Heal from the Infidelity? 12/12/2018 Q&A Am I Expecting too Much? 12/12/2018 Q&A How Do I Quit Worrying about Our Sexual Relationship? 12/12/2018 Q&A Should I Insist or Let It Go? 12/12/2018 Q&A Do You Have Any Recommendations to Help Pastors with Understanding How Infidelity Affects Us? 12/12/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with Continued Fantasy Thinking? 12/12/2018 Q&A Is This Normal or Is This a Sign of Unforgiveness? 12/12/2018 Q&A Is ‘Rubber Necking’ or Blatant Attention to Other Flirtatious Women Part of Infidelity? 12/12/2018 Q&A Should the Wayward Spouse Delete All Reminders of the Affair Partner? 12/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Overcome Things with My Addictive Personality? 12/05/2018 Q&A How Can I Communicate That I Understand My Mates Pain? 12/05/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…363738394041424344…next ›last »