For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Problem with Forgiveness Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How to Survive Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 1245 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Approach Our Vacation Sleeping Plan? 8/13/2020 Q&A Was Her Behavior Justified? 8/13/2020 Q&A What Should My Next Move Be? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Can I Heal When I Still Feel I Don't Have Full Disclosure and May Never Get It? 8/13/2020 Hope Rising 2020 Announcement 8/11/2020 Q&A Is My Husband Minimizing His Highly Sexual Affair? 8/07/2020 Q&A What Can I Do about My Husband's Recovery? 8/07/2020 Q&A Is He Still Intentionally Lying to Me and Not Telling Me Everything? 8/07/2020 Q&A Do Wayward Spouses Sometimes Use Marriage Deficits to Justify an Affair and Ending a Marriage? 8/06/2020 Q&A Is It Important for Me to Actually Tell Him That I Have Forgiven Him? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Do I Cope, Accept, and Reconcile with the Reckless Choice My Husband Made? 8/06/2020 Q&A Is He Really Healing If He’s Thinking of the Affair Partner as a Friend? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Husband Moving Forward with the Affair Partner? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Could Things Have Been So Bad and I Be So Oblivious to the Point I Thought Everything Was Good? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Can We Move Forward When We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 7/30/2020 Q&A Is This Normal or Is There Something Wrong with Me? 7/30/2020 Q&A How Do I Regain Respect and Admiration for My Husband? 7/28/2020 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Heal and Overcome Triggers If the Affair Partner Continues to Flirt with My Husband? 7/16/2020 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying? 7/09/2020 Q&A Am I Letting Myself Be Abused Again? 7/09/2020 Q&A Is There Any Hope for a Wayward Spouse, Who Pretends He Has Stopped Communication with the Affair Partner, but Refuses to Be Accountable and Continues to Gaslight? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Can a Betrayed Spouse Be Happier Than They Were before the Affair? 7/09/2020 Q&A What Happens If My Spouse Won't Acknowledge the Relationship as an Affair? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Get Unstuck? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Get Rid of the Compulsion to Contact My Wayward Spouse? 7/09/2020 Q&A Am I Wrong to Expect Him to Work His Way Back to My Heart? 7/09/2020 Q&A Is the Relationship Worth Salvaging? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle Wanting and Getting Comfort From My Spouse Who Is the One That Caused So Much Pain? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Heal and Move Forward in My Marriage Without Knowing Why He Made Those Choices? 7/09/2020 Q&A Is it Safe to Stay? 7/09/2020 Q&A What Can I Tell Him to Do for Me If I Can’t Trust Anything He Says or Does? 7/09/2020 Q&A At What Point Does a Serious Case of Narcissism in the Unfaithful Need to Be Considered Unsafe for the Betrayed Spouse to Even Consider Reconciliation? 7/09/2020 Q&A Should I Be Expected to Provide Affair-Partner-Level Intensity? 7/09/2020 Q&A Can Someone Who Has Been a Con Ever Be Trusted? 7/09/2020 Q&A Am I Being Unreasonable in My Demand? 7/09/2020 Q&A Will He Always Have Feelings for the Affair Partner? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Get Him to Understand? 7/09/2020 Q&A When Will the Urge to Snoop End? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When the Wayward Spouse Remains Hidden? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Can I Trust a Man That Has Cheated Most of Our Marriage? 6/25/2020 Q&A Could I Have Broken the Cycle Before My Spouse Strayed? 6/25/2020 Q&A What Am I Trying to Save Here? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Build Trust with My Wayward Spouse? 6/19/2020 Q&A My Wife Says She Didn’t Mean to Hurt Me. How Do I Respond to This? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Recover from the Affair If They Don't Really Grieve the Loss of the Relationship? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Can These Two Programs Be Helpful in Such a Mess of a Situation? 6/19/2020 Q&A If My Spouse Is Going through the Hope for Healing Course, Should I Expect to See His Emotions Roller Coaster like Mine? 6/19/2020 Q&A Do I Quit Expressing My Hurt, Asking Questions, and Pray for Peace in Our Remaining Years? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is Going No Contact with the Affair Partner Suggested or Discussed during Hope for Healing? 6/19/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…789101112131415…next ›last »
