For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 1267 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Husband Still Cannot Recommit to the Marriage? 9/02/2020 Q&A Should I Spend the Last Best Years of My Life Married, Surviving Infidelity, or Divorced? 9/02/2020 Q&A Would It Be Harmful to Ask If, and for How Long, There May Have Been Flashbacks or Memories of a Physical Affair? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Long Is Too Long for Grieving? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with This New Information That I Apparently Am Incompatible with Her Now? 8/27/2020 Q&A Am I Overreacting or Is My Husband Not Taking Responsibility? 8/27/2020 Q&A If Our Marriage Was So Wonderful, Why Did He Have an Affair? 8/27/2020 Q&A How Can I Believe My Spouse Has Broken off the Affair? 8/27/2020 Q&A My Husband Became a Bitter Person, What Should I Do? 8/27/2020 Q&A Why Do I Have to Work for Truth When I Was Not the One That Was Unfaithful? 8/18/2020 Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask for Details? 8/18/2020 Q&A Why I Am the One That Needs Reassurance and Not My Wayward Spouse? 8/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Reengage and Begin Moving Forward Again? 8/18/2020 Q&A Am I Crazy to Even Think There Is a Chance for Us? 8/13/2020 Q&A Is He Telling the Truth or Gaslighting Me? 8/13/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When the Spouse of My Husband's Affair Partner Attempts to Contact Me? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Wayward Wife's Friendships? 8/13/2020 Q&A Should I Just Ask Him to Move Out and Focus on Myself? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Do Handle How My Wife Is Acting? 8/13/2020 Q&A Why Do We Sometimes Ask the Same Questions Repeatedly? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Could Childhood Sexual Abuse Lead My Husband to Have an Affair? 8/13/2020 Q&A What Is It I Should Do to Heal? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Can He Be So Delusional and Casual about This Life Altering Situation? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Can I Make Him Understand That Porn Is Also Infidelity? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Do I Approach Our Vacation Sleeping Plan? 8/13/2020 Q&A Was Her Behavior Justified? 8/13/2020 Q&A What Should My Next Move Be? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Can I Heal When I Still Feel I Don't Have Full Disclosure and May Never Get It? 8/13/2020 Hope Rising 2020 Announcement 8/11/2020 Q&A Is My Husband Minimizing His Highly Sexual Affair? 8/07/2020 Q&A What Can I Do about My Husband's Recovery? 8/07/2020 Q&A Is He Still Intentionally Lying to Me and Not Telling Me Everything? 8/07/2020 Q&A Do Wayward Spouses Sometimes Use Marriage Deficits to Justify an Affair and Ending a Marriage? 8/06/2020 Q&A Is It Important for Me to Actually Tell Him That I Have Forgiven Him? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Do I Cope, Accept, and Reconcile with the Reckless Choice My Husband Made? 8/06/2020 Q&A Is He Really Healing If He’s Thinking of the Affair Partner as a Friend? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Husband Moving Forward with the Affair Partner? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Could Things Have Been So Bad and I Be So Oblivious to the Point I Thought Everything Was Good? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Can We Move Forward When We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 7/30/2020 Q&A Is This Normal or Is There Something Wrong with Me? 7/30/2020 Q&A How Do I Regain Respect and Admiration for My Husband? 7/28/2020 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Heal and Overcome Triggers If the Affair Partner Continues to Flirt with My Husband? 7/16/2020 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying? 7/09/2020 Q&A Am I Letting Myself Be Abused Again? 7/09/2020 Q&A Is There Any Hope for a Wayward Spouse, Who Pretends He Has Stopped Communication with the Affair Partner, but Refuses to Be Accountable and Continues to Gaslight? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Can a Betrayed Spouse Be Happier Than They Were before the Affair? 7/09/2020 Q&A What Happens If My Spouse Won't Acknowledge the Relationship as an Affair? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Get Unstuck? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Get Rid of the Compulsion to Contact My Wayward Spouse? 7/09/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…789101112131415…next ›last »
