For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 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How to Survive Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness 1245 Resources Type Title Posted How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Go Places Where My Husband Has Taken His AP for Secret Sexual or Relational Contact? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Could He Be so Loving and Romantic Toward the AP? 2/14/2018 Q&A What Does Accepting My Sex and Validation Addicted Spouse's Infidelity Look Like? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Addiction to Saving Her? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Support My Mate without Crossing the Line of Being Co-Dependent? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with On-Going D-Days? 2/14/2018 Q&A When Will I Feel like a Person of Value Again? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Husbands Fantasy Attraction? 2/14/2018 Q&A What Happens When the Unfaithful Shows No Effort? 2/14/2018 Q&A Why Was I so Interchangeable and Replaceable? 2/14/2018 Practical Tools for Betrayed Spouses 2/14/2018 Q&A Is There Something I Should Have Done, or Should Do Now? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Get to a Place Where I Can Sexually Re-Engage with My Mate? 2/07/2018 Q&A Is There Hope for Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t See the Truth? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Support My Mates Grieving Process? 1/31/2018 Q&A I Think I'm Done... 1/31/2018 Q&A How Can I Trust Him Again? 1/31/2018 Q&A Did I Go too Far? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Quit Criticizing My Attempts to Become Independent? 1/23/2018 Q&A Is My Mate Safe for Reconciliation? 1/23/2018 Q&A Should I Separate from My Mate? 1/23/2018 Q&A Should I Consider Another Separation? 1/23/2018 Q&A If My Mate has Lied about the past, Will They Lie about the Present and Future? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Big of a Part Did Alcohol Play in All of This? 1/23/2018 Q&A Why Is His Perspective of Us and of Love Getting Worse? 1/23/2018 Q&A What Do You Suggest When the Unfaithful Spouse Seems Numb? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Get over What I Don't Know? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do You 'Feel' Emotions without Letting Them Control You? 1/22/2018 Q&A Why Do We Choose to Stay with Someone Who Has Wounded Us So Deeply? 1/22/2018 Q&A Why Do I Feel The Way That I Do? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Do Addictions Play into That Sequence of Recovery? 1/22/2018 Q&A Why Does My Mate Still Think about the Affair Partner? 1/22/2018 Q&A Are There Any Tools or Strategies to Help Overcome The ‘Addiction’ of the AP? 1/22/2018 Q&A Do I File for Divorce to Protect Myself and Possibly Wake Her Up? 1/22/2018 Q&A Why Is the Unfaithful Trying to Take Advantage? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Do I Overcome Being Repulsed by My Husband? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Do We Re-establish a Sexual Relationship? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Long Does It Take the Unfaithful to Stop Thinking about the Affair Partner? 1/22/2018 Q&A What Do I Do When There Are No Actions behind the Words? 1/22/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What My Mate Was Thinking? 1/22/2018 Q&A What Should I Do?” 1/22/2018 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Personally Do to Discourage a Persistent AP? 1/22/2018 Q&A What Do You Do When You Spouse Refuses Help and Wants Divorce? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Do I, as the Betrayed, Learn to Love My Mate Again? 1/10/2018 Q&A If Relapse Continues, Does the Effort by the Betrayed Even Matter? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Forgive Myself for Transmitting My Pain? 1/08/2018 Q&A What's the Normal Length of Time People Refrain from Sex after Discovering Infidelity? 12/06/2017 Q&A When Is Enough, Enough? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Communicate My Need for Safety in Recovery? 12/06/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…151617181920212223…next ›last »
