For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Power of Small Groups Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How to Survive Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Problem with Forgiveness The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 1267 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Stop Re-Traumatizing Myself? 7/26/2017 Everyone Thought I was Crazy for Staying: Amanda and Kenneth’s Story 7/19/2017 What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library 5/24/2017 Q&A Will Contacting the Affair Partner Help Me Forgive? 3/15/2017 Surviving Infidelity: Are You Looking for an Explanation? 12/01/2016 Bad Advice for Hurt Spouses 11/16/2016 Q&A How Can I Connect With Others Like Me? 7/26/2016 Q&A How Can I Stop My Negative Thought Pattern? 7/19/2016 Q&A Is There Any Hope for Betrayed Men? 5/03/2016 The Story that Started Affair Recovery 2/24/2016 Q&A Which Feelings Should I Listen to? 1/12/2016 Q&A What Does Grieving Look Like? 12/15/2015 Q&A Thanks for the Help, But What About My Betrayed Spouse? 12/01/2015 What’s the Most Effective Role for Me? 10/27/2015 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Stay Out of Our Old Ruts? 10/27/2015 Q&A Why Is Infidelity So Traumatic? 10/27/2015 How Can My Unfaithful Wife Take Initiative In Recovery? 10/27/2015 How Can the Betrayer Get Past Guilt When Spouse Gives Constant Criticism? 10/27/2015 Q&A How Long Does My No-sex Agreement With My Unfaithful Wife Need to Last? 10/27/2015 Q&A How Important is a Normal Routine in Recovery? 9/28/2015 Q&A How can I Tell if I'm Handling this Well? 8/27/2015 Q&A Are there any Markers for Knowing Whether a Betrayed Spouse can Heal? 8/25/2015 Q&A How can I get Past a Desire for Revenge? 8/04/2015 Q&A Can I Heal While Spouse is Active in an Affair? 8/04/2015 The Ashley Madison Hack - Surviving Discovery 7/29/2015 Q&A Am I Being Compared to the Affair Partner? 7/20/2015 Social Shame Survey 7/15/2015 Q&A Why Should I Own my Mistakes? 6/26/2015 Q&A Can You Help me Find Reasons to Stay? 6/26/2015 Q&A Is no Sexual Desire Common? 6/09/2015 Q&A What Boundaries are Needed to Keep my Family Safe? 6/09/2015 Q&A When Can the Betrayed Spouse Move on? 5/19/2015 Q&A Why Start Over With Someone Who Deceived You and Cheated on You? 5/19/2015 Q&A Should I Separate From my Unfaithful Spouse? 5/19/2015 Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Get Over the Treatment by the Unfaithful While in an Affair? 5/19/2015 Q&A How Can I Set Boundaries While my Spouse is Having an Affair? 5/12/2015 Q&A How Much Can be Shared About the Affair Sex? 5/12/2015 Q&A Should I Publicly Expose my Spouse's Affair Partner? 5/12/2015 Q&A Why do They Continue to Lie? 5/12/2015 Q&A How Long Does it Take to Heal From Infidelity? 5/12/2015 Q&A My Spouse Works With Their Affair Partner. Will They Relapse? 5/04/2015 Q&A How Can we Shift Control of the Relationship? 4/24/2015 Q&A Why is it Not a Good Idea to Contact the AP? 4/24/2015 Q&A How Can I Deal with the Affair Partner Having Been in my House? 4/21/2015 Q&A Should I Reciprocate Transparency With my Phone? 4/21/2015 Q&A How Long do I Wait for my Wife to End her Affair? 4/21/2015 Q&A How do I Obtain Closure When the AP is his Ex-Wife? 4/21/2015 Q&A How can I Gain Perspective of an Addict's Mind? 4/15/2015 Q&A Why am I Afraid to Move Forward to a Normal State? 4/15/2015 Q&A What is Going Through His Mind? 3/31/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…181920212223242526next ›last »
