For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Power of Small Groups Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Problem with Forgiveness 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How to Survive Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 327 Resources Type Title Posted How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity? 7/19/2023 Denial and Recovery After an Affair 7/05/2023 Hope for Healing Excerpt: 'Is My Life Out of Control?' 6/21/2023 Q&A How Can I Continue to Be Empathetic to Her If in Spite of All I Do, It Is Still Not Enough? 6/16/2023 Q&A I Understand the Importance of Not Being Defensive about the Infidelity or Betrayal, but Does That Extend into Every Aspect of Our Lives? 6/16/2023 Q&A How Did ADHD and Other Factors Like Depression and Anxiety Contribute to My Affairs? 6/16/2023 How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/24/2023 Q&A Why Do I Still Respond Physically like I Am Lying When I’m Telling the Truth? 5/19/2023 Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted? 5/19/2023 Affair Recovery Steps: How to Live Without Fear After Infidelity 5/17/2023 Q&A I’m Losing Compassion for My Mate. What Can I Do? 5/02/2023 Q&A How Do You Recommend I Write My Closure Letter to the Affair Partner? 4/20/2023 Q&A Do We Have a Chance at Recovery If He Is Unable to Understand How Trauma Can Impact Me? 3/17/2023 Q&A How Do I Approach This Polygraph without Feeling like My Marriage Is on the Line? 3/17/2023 Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 3/15/2023 Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate That I’m Not Talking to the Affair Partner? 3/02/2023 Q&A How Do I Explain Disassociation and It’s Part in the Affair? 1/26/2023 Q&A How Do I Help My Husband Understand the Effects of Trauma While Also Letting Him See That It Is Not an Excuse for My Actions? 1/11/2023 Q&A How Do I Explain That My Childhood Trauma Triggered My Actions and Doesn’t Remove My Accountability Even If I Did Disassociate? 1/11/2023 Q&A What Is a Realistic Timeline for My Own Recovery with C-PTSD and Childhood Trauma and Being Able to Answer Every Specifically Detailed ‘Why'? 1/11/2023 Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 1/04/2023 Q&A How Do I Get over All of the Pain That I Have Caused? 12/06/2022 Pleasing Versus Loving 11/29/2022 The Mystery of Change 11/02/2022 Q&A Are My Kids Really ‘Love Children’ from My Affairs? 10/13/2022 Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Work through the Deception Regarding the Infidelity? 10/13/2022 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Believe I’m Not Manipulating Him? 10/13/2022 Q&A Will I Be Able to Find My Wife Sexually Attractive Again or Have I Broken My Brain? 10/13/2022 The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 10/05/2022 Q&A How Can an Unfaithful Spouse Develop Emotional Intelligence? 9/13/2022 Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 8/17/2022 Q&A Is It Strange for the Unfaithful to Have Depression? 8/03/2022 Q&A How Do I Keep My Boundaries Strong in a Place of Leadership? 7/07/2022 Q&A Am I Just Playing the Victim to Reduce My Guilt? 7/01/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 6/15/2022 Q&A How Do I Respond to the Betrayed’s Triggers When It’s Affecting My Mental Health Now? 6/14/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial 6/08/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 2 - Not Getting It 6/01/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 5/25/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part III: Individual Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? 5/18/2022 Q&A Why Can’t I Give My Spouse Full Disclosure? 4/20/2022 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Discuss the Questions That Most Wayward Spouses Get from the Betrayed? 4/20/2022 Q&A How Do We Handle Disclosure When My Infidelity Was So Long Ago and I Can’t Remember All the Details? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Should I as a Wayward Spouse Approach My Spouse’s Continual Desire for Reassurance? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Do I Emotionally Connect with Someone Who Treats Me This Way? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Long Does It Take for Desire for My Mate to Return after Severing Ties with My Affair Partners? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Long Should I Accept and Validate His Exaggerated Reactions as a Result of My Previously Reckless Behaviors? 2/17/2022 Q&A What Do We Do When We Both Cheated, If My Betrayal Was ‘Worse’ than His? 1/18/2022 Pages« first‹ previous1234567next ›last »
