Recovering Alone Recovery can be won even if your spouse is not willing to participate just yet. What is most important is your own individual recovery so that you can thrive in a life of new hope and restoration. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Power of Small Groups Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 170 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is it OK for Me to Say No Even Though it May Make Things Worse? 11/30/2016 Q&A Have you Seen a Marriage Recover from this Kind of Affair? 11/30/2016 Q&A How Can I Not Feel Lonely While My Spouse Grieves the Loss of His Affair Partner? 11/30/2016 Q&A Why Can't He, and Will He Ever, Understand My Pain? 11/30/2016 Q&A What Concerns Should I Have at this Point in Our Recovery from His Affair? 11/30/2016 Q&A How do We Deal With Chronic Pain, Medication Addiction, and Affair Recovery? 11/23/2016 Q&A How do I Deal With an Extremely Obstinate Unfaithful Spouse? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Long Should I Try to Hold On? 10/24/2016 Q&A qWhat Are Appropriate Separation Protocols? 10/24/2016 Q&A Why Would He Do this After Already Inflicting so Much Pain? 10/24/2016 Q&A Should We Part Ways Now to Save Ourselves? 10/24/2016 Q&A Will My Spouse Come Around or is it Time to End it After the Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A Should I Let Go or is This Normal Behavior? 9/07/2016 Q&A Why is My Mate Not Making Healing and Recovery a Priority? 9/07/2016 Q&A If the Infidelity Continues, is it Time for Divorce? 8/03/2016 Q&A Any Considerations for Me to Determine Safety in the Relationship? 8/03/2016 Q&A What Will Help My Unfaithful Spouse 'Get it'? 8/03/2016 Q&A How Long Should I Resist Divorce? 7/26/2016 Q&A What Can I Do to Keep Things From Unwinding? 7/19/2016 Q&A What if My Mate Isn't Committed to the EMSO Contract? 7/19/2016 Q&A How Can We Move Forward While There is Still Lying to My Face? 7/13/2016 Q&A How do we Face this Logistical Challenge? 6/28/2016 Q&A Would it be Better Without Me? 6/28/2016 Q&A How Should I Continue From Here? 6/21/2016 Q&A Is This an Unsafe Person? 6/21/2016 Q&A What About Financial Safety? 6/14/2016 Q&A What's the Right Thing to Do Here? 6/03/2016 Q&A Should I Leave and Work on Me? 6/03/2016 Q&A What Direction Should I Take? 6/03/2016 Q&A What Will the Future Hold in This Scenario? 4/28/2016 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Spouse to Return? 4/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Feel Safety in an Unsafe Environment? 4/28/2016 Q&A What Should I Be Looking for From My Spouse to Feel Safe? 4/28/2016 Q&A (HH) How do You Know When to Invite an Unfaithful Spouse Home? 3/24/2016 Q&A Are There any Interventions you Suggest? 2/09/2016 Q&A What's Reasonable to Make Me Feel Safe? 2/02/2016 Q&A Can I Feel Safe? 2/02/2016 Q&A What's Left to Do at This Point? 1/26/2016 Q&A How Can I Ensure My Safety? 1/21/2016 Q&A Is it Possible to Heal All of This Alone? 12/23/2015 Q&A Do I Just Wait for Limerance to Fade? 12/15/2015 Q&A Do I Have a Right to Contact the AP's Spouse? 12/15/2015 Q&A Why Won't He Talk About It? 11/19/2015 Q&A Why Does He Want to Fix the Marriage While He is With His AP? 11/10/2015 Q&A My Spouse Is Not Taking Personal Responsibility and May Be a Sex Addict. I Feel Like Giving Up, Should I? 11/04/2015 Q&A How Do I Communicate the Importance of My Spouse's Recovery? 10/20/2015 Q&A Is it Safe For Me to Stay? 10/20/2015 Q&A How can I Pretend to be Happy When I'm Not? 7/07/2015 Q&A Should I Separate my Finances? 6/02/2015 Q&A How Can I Set Boundaries While my Spouse is Having an Affair? 5/12/2015 Pages« first‹ previous1234next ›last »
