Q&A What Should I Be Looking for From My Spouse to Feel Safe?

Question

John and Leslie,  It has been 4 months since our d day and I struggle with not being able to trust my husband. I know that I cannot trust him and would be a fool at this point if I did. To work on rebuilding that lack of trust, what kinds of things should I expect my husband to do for me to make himself safe? He is openly communicating where he will be and who he will be with, as we discuss it together each day, but it is still his word. ...