Strengthening Marriage Nurture your marriage with positive steps towards maintaining a healthy recovery. Use these articles to find security on your pathway to wholeness. Must Reads more less Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Power of Small Groups Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 350 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Long Do We Keep Talking and Reading about the Affair? 4/18/2018 Q&A How Can We Connect during the Time Away from Each Other? 4/11/2018 Q&A How Can I Change the Way My Spouse Views Me? 4/11/2018 Q&A What's Wrong with Me? 4/05/2018 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Reconnect with My Mate Again? 3/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Navigate Giving My Spouse Time to Show Effort? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Will I Ever Move past This and Desire a Connection Again? 3/23/2018 Q&A Should We Combine the EMS Program with Other Things? (e.g. Couples Therapy or Married for Life) 3/23/2018 Q&A Is There a Purposeful Way We Can Get past This? 3/05/2018 Q&A Why Can't I Believe My Mate? 3/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Trust That What He Feels for Me Is Real? 2/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Intense Emotions? 2/28/2018 Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling 2/28/2018 How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018 Q&A How to We Navigate Recovery with a History of Abuse? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Get to a Place Where I Can Sexually Re-Engage with My Mate? 2/07/2018 Q&A Is My Sex Drive Normal? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Does My Mate Turn Their Life Around? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Do I Support My Mates Grieving Process? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Do We Start over without Reviewing the Past? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Quit Criticizing My Attempts to Become Independent? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do You Reclaim the Losses from the Affair? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Overcome Being Repulsed by My Husband? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Do We Re-establish a Sexual Relationship? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Do I, as the Betrayed, Learn to Love My Mate Again? 1/10/2018 Q&A Should I Give My Mate Another Chance? 1/10/2018 Q&A Can You Address Different Personalities in Marriage? 1/10/2018 Q&A How Can I Communicate My Needs in the Marriage? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Do I Show My Mate Grace? 1/08/2018 Q&A Is It Unreasonable to Expect My Mate to Be Honest about Their Needs? 1/08/2018 Q&A Does He Really Want Me? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Can't I Accept That My Mate Is Frustrated at Non-Affair Things? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Can We Find an Appropriate Couples Counselor? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Engage? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do You Handle Doubt? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Connected to Me? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Answer the Question, 'Do You Promise You'll Never Do This to Me Again'? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Effectively Communicate My Pain? 11/22/2017 Q&A How Do We Break the Barrier between Us When the Unfaithful Says He Isn't Sure He Wants to Be Married? 11/15/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Consequences of My Actions? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Can We Keep the Healing Momentum Going? 11/10/2017 Q&A What Should the Expectations Be for Long Separations? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Does an Unfaithful Spouse Cope with Continued Shaming from the Betrayed Spouse? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Unfaithful Still Justifies the Affair with Marriage Deficits? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Fear I Have with His Sexual Performance? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do We Heal from the Affair While Raising a Child Conceived with the Affair Partner? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Be Sure the Type of Sex He Had with His AP Is Not His New Preference? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Might It Take for My Heart to Stop Aching and Me to Be Truly 'All In'? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Might It Take for My Heart to Stop Aching and Me to Be Truly 'All In'? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Show Her We Can Recover from This? 10/10/2017 Pages« first‹ previous1234567next ›last »