All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Power of Small Groups Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How to Survive Infidelity 4912 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do We Combat Triggers for Upcoming Events? 5/10/2017 Q&A Is There Hope If the Affair Partner Still Works with My Mate? 5/03/2017 Q&A What Keeps Someone from Cheating? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Long Is Long Enough? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for Someone Not to Be Ambivalent? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is It Ok to Withdraw My Commitment to Being Completely Emotionally Honest? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Rekindle the Love for My Mate If They Won't Cooperate? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Do I Move Forward after Betrayal and Divorce? 5/03/2017 Q&A If I Learn There Were More People Than I Initially Thought, Does My Healing Process Begin Again? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Do I Get Rid of My Shame? 5/03/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can I Give My Wife Hope after Betraying Her So Deeply? 5/03/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: Why Did I Do This and How Do I Get out of This Pit? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Do I Achieve Forgiveness? 5/03/2017 Q&A Now That Harboring Hope Is over Do We Tell Our Family or Friends about the Infidelity? 5/03/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Help Reduce the Frequency of Intrusive Imagery? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is It Possible to Build a New Marriage without Physical Intimacy? 5/03/2017 Q&A Could You Explain What Serial Affairs Means Exactly? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Triggers When the Affair Partner Is Entangled into Many Aspects of Our Lives? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Do I Get to the Point Where I Can Give the Marriage the Chance to Rekindle the Love? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is There a Point in Staying Married since My Husband Is Visiting His Affair Partner and Their Child? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Work towards Healing If I Don't Feel We Are at Ground Zero? 5/03/2017 Q&A What's Your Advice for Me Now That My Husband Is Working with His Affair Partner Again? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Learn to Cope and Handle the Hurt? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can She Be So Kind Now after the Way She Treated Me Just a Year Ago? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Hear His Heart? 5/03/2017 Q&A What Do I Do with This Anger and Loss of Trust We Had Worked Hard to Gain? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Express Hurt and Anger but Not Shame My Spouse? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Possibly Turn around the Tone and Momentum? 5/03/2017 Q&A Should We Discuss My Faults in the Marriage Now or Wait until He Takes Responsibility for His Infidelities? 5/03/2017 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is It Me or My Trauma That's Holding Us Back? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Feel I'm in an Ideal Marriage If I Can't Expect Sex to Be Ideal? 4/25/2017 Q&A Can Our Sexual Relationship Heal or Should I Change My Expectations? 4/25/2017 Q&A What Should I Do Now That I'm Finished with EMS Online? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is an EMS Course an Option with the Affair Partner Still in the Picture? 4/25/2017 Q&A Should My Wife Offer Amends and/or Disclosure to Her Ex Husband? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Trust Someone Who Has Manipulated Me So Much? 4/25/2017 Q&A Why Do You Say Oral Sex Is 'Always about Sex'? 4/25/2017 Q&A Should I Be Worried That She's Not Sharing Her Intrusive Thoughts with Me? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is Our Church Safe? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is He Relapsing? 4/25/2017 Q&A Should We Change Churches? 4/25/2017 Q&A He Blames His Addiction on My Lack of Connection and I Blame My Lack of Connection on His Addiction. 4/25/2017 Q&A When Is It Safe to End a Separation and Come Back Together? 4/25/2017 Q&A When Will I Stop Being Angry and Start Grieving? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Can We Figure out What the Affair Was About? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Be Assertive without Being Aggressive about His Recovery? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Do We Get through This without Being Together? 4/25/2017 Q&A Why Was He a Different Person in His Affairs? Why Can't He Be More Like That with Me? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is It Healthy for Me to Withdraw My Commitment for Complete Honesty? 4/25/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…596061626364656667…next ›last »