For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Problem with Forgiveness 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 1267 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Maintain Recovery During Times of Crisis? 4/28/2020 Q&A Is It Really Possible for a Man to Fall Back in Love with His Wife If He Was in Love with His Affair Partner? 4/28/2020 Q&A Can I Trust This as Real Change or Just Further Manipulation? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand My Concerns? 4/28/2020 Q&A Will We Ever Be Able to Restore Trust in Our Marriage? 4/28/2020 Q&A Should We Continue EMS Online If My Spouse Continues to Blame Me for the Affair? 4/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Know Limerance Isn’t What My Husband Feels for Me? 4/09/2020 Q&A Why Do Wayward Spouses Want to Stay in the Marriage? 4/09/2020 Q&A What Was My Husband Telling Himself When He Told Me All These Lies? 4/09/2020 Q&A What Kind of Affair Did My Husband Have and What Does It Mean for Recovery? 4/02/2020 Q&A Can You Help Me Reframe My Thinking? 3/19/2020 Q&A Is My Husband Normal, Sick, or Was He Temporarily Insane? 3/19/2020 Q&A What Can I Do to Support My Mate in Breaking Contact with the Affair Partner? 3/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle Being in the Friend Zone with My Wife? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Long Does It Take for the Wayward Spouse to See Clearly? 3/16/2020 Q&A Can I Get My Motivation Back? 3/16/2020 Q&A Is There Any Way to Help My Wayward Spouse? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear around My Ex-Wife's Possible Relationship? 3/16/2020 Q&A What Do I Do If My Husband Won't Get Help? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Find Balance between Healing Myself and Healing Our Relationship? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Address My Spouse's Flirtatious Behaviors? 3/16/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse See's the Affair as My Fault? 3/10/2020 Q&A How Do You Define Healing for the Betrayed Spouse? 3/03/2020 Q&A Can a Couple Really Benefit from Doing This Work Every Week without the Wayward Spouse Initiating and Participating in Disclosure Attempts? 3/03/2020 Q&A Is It Possible That She Believed Her Emotional Affair Was Not Infidelity? 3/03/2020 Q&A Is My Husband a Sex Addict? 2/20/2020 Q&A Why Doesn’t It Seem He Wants a Healthy Wife and Be Safe for Her? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Could Sex Mean Something with Me When My Mate Still Wanted It with Someone Else? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Do We Manage Recovery from Both My Affair My Mates Addiction? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Do I View D-Day as the Date He Chose Me Rather Than the Day He Was Leaving Me? 2/14/2020 Q&A Have I Done Enough on My Part to Try and Heal ‘Us’? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Is the True Meaning of ‘Being Safe’ for the Injured Spouse? 2/14/2020 Q&A Why Shouldn't the Betrayed Spouse Confront the Affair Partner? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle the Fact That My Husband’s ‘Safe Place’ for Porn and Masturbation Has Primarily Been at Work? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Get over My Husband's past Behavior? 2/14/2020 Q&A Is the Affair a Result of My Mates Addiction Issues? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Protect Myself from Getting an STD If My Husband Has Another Affair Again? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Can I Move on after He Was so Intentional in Hurting Me? 2/11/2020 Q&A Is There Any Reason for Me to Contact My Mates Affair Partner? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Response to the Truth in Love Exercise? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Can I Get My Wayward Spouse to End the Affair? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner? 2/11/2020 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to See the Time during the Affair as Something Other Than Tainted or Fake? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Know She Believes What I Say? 1/31/2020 Q&A What Is Hindering My Mate from Showing Empathy? 1/31/2020 Q&A How Do I Confront My Husband? 1/31/2020 Q&A Why Did His Guilt over the Affair Partner Win out over Me and Our Marriage? 1/31/2020 Q&A How Do I Get past the Things I Think He Might Have Said to Her? 1/31/2020 Q&A Was I Wrong for Questioning Him or Is There a Better Way I Could’ve Approached This? 1/16/2020 Q&A What Does Transparency, Accountability, and External Controls Look like in Recovery? 1/16/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…91011121314151617…next ›last »
