For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Power of Small Groups How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 319 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A (HFH) Am I Subconsciously Sabotaging my Marriage? 2/10/2015 Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Lying to my Spouse and Myself? 1/29/2015 Q&A (HFH) Am I a Sex Addict? 1/20/2015 Q&A (HFH) How Can I Break a Soul Tie with my Affair Partner? 1/06/2015 Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Thinking About my Affair Partner? 1/06/2015 Q&A (HFH) I Want to Contact my Affair Partner. How do I Stop Myself? 1/06/2015 Q&A What is the Difference Between being Angry and Assertive? 12/15/2014 Were They Thinking of Me? 12/03/2014 The Fantasyland of an Affair 11/26/2014 Q&A Should I Apologize to my Spouse's Family for my Affair? 11/14/2014 Q&A My Husband is Having Urges 11/05/2014 Surviving Infidelity: Poor Recovery Decisions of Unfaithful Spouses - Part 2 10/23/2014 Using the Time Well: Try the First Steps Bootcamp 9/17/2014 I Only Have Eyes for You 8/19/2014 The Seduction of Blame 5/21/2014 How to Not Make Things Worse: Community Poll 11/06/2013 I Want My Life Back 9/18/2013 What We Learned at EMS Weekend 9/04/2013 It Seems I've Missed the Mark 8/13/2013 Pages« first‹ previous1234567