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Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Problem with Forgiveness The Power of Small Groups Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 1218 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can I Recover Without Fully Knowing About Her Affair? 11/23/2016 Q&A How am I Supposed to be the Best Husband I Can be After She Cheated? 11/23/2016 Bad Advice for Hurt Spouses 11/16/2016 Q&A Is there Any Hope for Getting Over the Pain and Anger of Betrayal? 11/02/2016 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Feel Safe While I Can't Remember Details that He Wants? 11/02/2016 Q&A Are We Losing Our Vigilance in Recovery? 11/02/2016 Q&A What Rules Should We Follow During Our No Contact Separation? 11/02/2016 Q&A Should I Just Let Him Divorce Me after His Affairs? 11/02/2016 Q&A How Can I Share My Anxiety and Concerns With Him? 10/24/2016 Q&A Is it Normal to Relive the Days During the Affair to Rewrite History? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Get Past this Lifelong Belief System? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Know if My Unfaithful Spouse is Truly Committed to the Marriage and Recovery? 10/24/2016 Q&A Is it Possible to Stay in My Marriage With Fear Based Motivation and Find True Happiness Eventually? 10/24/2016 Q&A Are There Any Similarities Between the Betrayed Spouses that Don't Reconcile? 10/24/2016 Q&A How do I Manage My Husband's Recovery? 10/24/2016 Q&A Will the Nightmare Ever End so I Can Find a Brighter Future? 10/24/2016 Q&A Is it Worth Taking This Journey of Recovery? 10/18/2016 Q&A Who Would Want to be Empathetic Toward Their Spouse if They Had an Affair? 10/12/2016 Q&A How can My Unfaithful Mate Help Me When I Flood Emotionally? 10/12/2016 Q&A Why do I Break Down When I'm Shown Empathy? 10/12/2016 Q&A Was His Infidelity Based on Me Not Being Who He Wants? 10/12/2016 Q&A How did My Cycle of Grace Become My Cycle of Failure? 10/11/2016 Q&A If He's Been so Good at Lying, How Can I Trust His Story of the Affair? 10/11/2016 Q&A I was Unfaithful. Why do I Feel Betrayed? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Productively Let My Spouse Know Our Current Reality After His Affairs? 9/28/2016 Q&A Can We Heal Without Counseling or Other Work After Their Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Handle My Wife Not Being Intimate After Her Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A My Husband Insists We Move Forward Without Discussing the Affair. Is it Possible? 9/22/2016 Q&A Should We Wait to Discuss the Affair and Work on Ourselves First? 9/22/2016 Q&A Which Anniversary do We Celebrate After Infidelity? 9/22/2016 Q&A Any Reassurance that I'm Not Totally Abnormal Sexually? 9/14/2016 Q&A How Can I Not Blame Myself for Their Affair? 9/14/2016 Q&A I Feel Unloved, He Feels Unappreciated, How Can We Heal? 9/14/2016 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand the Strange Emotional Place I'm In? 9/14/2016 Q&A Should I Quit My Job to Help My Mate Heal After My Affair? 9/14/2016 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 9/11/2016 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 9/11/2016 Q&A Is it Possible to Move Past My Spouse Having an Affair on Our Anniversary? 9/07/2016 Q&A Should I Let Go or is This Normal Behavior? 9/07/2016 Q&A Could My Mate Not Have the Emotional Capacity to Recover? 9/07/2016 Q&A Will I Ever Feel Special Given Our History Now? 9/07/2016 Q&A How Do I Face This Challenge With My Father-in-Law? 8/30/2016 Q&A Will the Larger Problems be Addressed? 8/30/2016 Q&A How Can I Show My Spouse the Benefits of Small Groups? 8/30/2016 Q&A How Can I Move Past My Fear? 8/24/2016 Q&A Why Does My Mate's Disclosure Not Make Sense? 8/24/2016 Q&A What Can I Do Now That I Feel it's No Longer a Real Marriage? 8/24/2016 Overcoming Trauma after Infidelity at EMS Weekend, Interviewing an Expert 8/24/2016 Q&A What Are Reasonable Expectations for My Unfaithful Spouse? 8/03/2016 Q&A Should I Hear My Mate's Feelings for the Affair Partner 8/03/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…151617181920212223…next ›last »
