Recovery Fundamentals Start with the basics when first walking the road to recovery. Developing a systematic plan for recovery will enable you to stick to your basic recovery principles even when things get tough. Must Reads more less Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Power of Small Groups How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 1232 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A When My Husband Turns My Anger around on Me Is That Gaslighting? 3/12/2020 Q&A What Things Are Considered a Life Squeeze in the Cycle of Failure Exercise? 3/10/2020 Q&A Why Is My Mate Giving Minimal Effort to Recovery? 2/20/2020 Q&A What Advice Would You Give around Our Recovery Efforts? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Set Effective Boundaries as Someone Who Is Conflict Avoidant? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Should I Do about My Wayward Spouse's Regression during Recovery? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Finding Community during Recovery? 2/14/2020 Q&A Why Shouldn't the Betrayed Spouse Confront the Affair Partner? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Should I Do? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Do We Do After EMS Online? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Response to the Truth in Love Exercise? 2/11/2020 Expert Q&A Preview: What Is Hysterical Bonding and Is It a Bad Thing If You Both Want to Stay in Your Marriage? 2/11/2020 Q&A When and How Do We Work through Triggers and Who Pursues Who in Our Marriage? 1/31/2020 Q&A What Is the Best Next Step for Us in Light of This Disclosure? 1/16/2020 Q&A When Do I Know That It’s Time for Me to Leave? 1/16/2020 Q&A How Do We Set Boundaries with Family Members? 1/09/2020 Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much from My Wayward Spouse? 1/03/2020 Q&A I Don't Want to Create a New Marriage, I Want My Old Marriage Back. How Do I Move Forward? 1/03/2020 Q&A Do I Continue to Be Friends? 1/02/2020 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts Regarding My Situation? 1/02/2020 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand This Quote? 1/02/2020 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on My Situation? 1/02/2020 Q&A Does Working on the Marriage First Give the Wayward Spouse More Strength and Motivation to End the Affair? 1/02/2020 Q&A Will the Hope for Healing Course Be Effective for My Husband? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Can I Get My Wayward Spouse to Understand That This Is a Big Deal? 12/19/2019 Q&A How Do I Explain That Some Space Could Be a Good Thing? 12/19/2019 Q&A Could You Please Explain Dissociation and How It Can Cause and Affect People in Affairs? 12/16/2019 Q&A My Husband Is Having a Hard Time Recommitting. What Can I Do? 12/16/2019 Q&A Is It Wrong for Me to Give My Mate an Ultimatum? 11/22/2019 Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Rebuilding My Self-Image? 11/22/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle Our Children? 11/22/2019 Q&A Will His Rehabilitation Set Our Recovery Back? 11/22/2019 Q&A When Do I Determine Enough Is Enough? 11/22/2019 Q&A How Do I Deal with Seeing the Affair Partner on a Regular Basis? 11/22/2019 Q&A Could You Talk a Little Bit about Emotional Self-Regulation? 11/22/2019 Q&A How Can I Get Past Being Stuck? 11/22/2019 Q&A Is Compatibility More Important Than Love for a Successful Marriage? 11/22/2019 Q&A Is It Possible to Extend Too Much Grace and Mercy? 11/21/2019 Q&A How Do We Move Forward If My Mate Isn't Willing to Get Help? 11/21/2019 Q&A Can You Help Me Better Understand My Anger? 11/21/2019 Q&A How Can We Move Forward in a Healthy and Safe Way? 11/21/2019 Q&A How Do I Push Forward in Recovery When I Feel That My Mate Isn't Trust Worthy? 11/14/2019 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Decision Making during Recovery? 11/14/2019 Q&A Can You Help My Understand Why the Empathy Exercises Have Been so Difficult for My Mate? 11/14/2019 Q&A Do You Have Advice for Getting past This Roadblock in Our Recovery? 11/14/2019 Q&A How Do I Move Past the Shock of This? 11/14/2019 Q&A How Do I Get over Never Knowing When the Affair Started? 11/13/2019 Q&A Is This an Acceptable Behavior for the Recovery Process? 11/13/2019 Q&A Will My Husband Ever Stop Thinking of His Affair Partner? 11/13/2019 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Balancing Recovery and Wanting to Be Joyful and Present at the Same Time? 11/13/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…5678910111213…next ›last »
