Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 1063 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Handle Running into the Affair Partner Now That the Affair Is Over? 7/12/2017 Q&A What's Your Take on an Unfaithful Wife Who Still Blames the Marriage for the Affair 1 Year from Discovery? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse When He Is Drowning in Shame? 7/12/2017 Q&A Should I Not Bring up the Affair Again? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Do I Do with a Spouse That Blames Me for the Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A Am I Being Emotionally Abused since His Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Safe Questions Can I Ask to Regain Our Openness but without Causing Me Pain? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Get past the Fears of What He Will Do If I Leave Him? 7/12/2017 Q&A Do We Revert Back to Our Old State Once the Threat Disappears? 7/12/2017 Q&A Is It Okay to Let the Affair Partner Know That I Forgive Her? 7/12/2017 Q&A Is It Therapeutic for People to Know about My Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 7/12/2017 Q&A Is Asking Questions Abusive? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Support Him When He Struggles to Be Safe for Us? 7/12/2017 Q&A Will Marriage Therapy Work If the Unfaithful Spouse Doesn't Have to Discuss What Happened? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Know If a Counselor Is a Good Fit? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Is a Reasonable Expectation When I Share a Wound with My Mate? 7/05/2017 Q&A Is It Beneficial to Read My Mates Journaling during Hope for Healing? 7/05/2017 Q&A How Can I Explain What the Word 'Safe' Means to Me? 7/05/2017 Q&A Is It Possible for Him to Change Enough Where I Feel Can Safe in the Future? 7/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear of Contact with the Affair Partner? 7/05/2017 Q&A Is This Level of Anger Normal When Recovering from an Affair? 6/28/2017 Q&A He Says I'm 50% Responsible for His Affair. Is That a Sign of Denial? 6/21/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Safely from Here in the Presence of a Restraining Order? 6/21/2017 Q&A Should We Make Amends by Contacting Former Affair Partners and Spouses? 6/21/2017 Q&A What Does Consent to Sex Look Like in Marriage? 6/21/2017 Q&A How Often Do the Betrayed Spouses of the Unfaithful Partners Get Together? 6/21/2017 Q&A What Can We Expect from EMS Online? 6/07/2017 Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Is Really Changing? 6/07/2017 Q&A Why Does He Say He Wants to Save the Marriage? 6/07/2017 Q&A What Should We Discuss When We Check-In with Each Other? 6/07/2017 Q&A Is This All Part of the Process or Is It Something Else? 6/07/2017 Q&A Should We Throw in the Towel before Things Get Worse? 6/07/2017 Q&A What Do We Tell Our Kids regarding the Infidelities? 5/26/2017 Q&A Should I Continue Forward or Wait until He Wants to Recommit to Us? 5/26/2017 Q&A Should I Continue to Verify My Spouse's Honesty? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Spouse to Overcome Ambivalence and Make a Decision? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Overcome Her Shame? 5/26/2017 Q&A Is My Wife Safe? 5/26/2017 Q&A Can My Deceitful and Unfaithful Spouse Really Change? 5/24/2017 Q&A How Can I Encourage My Spouse to Engage in Healing Conversations? 5/24/2017 Q&A Is It Okay for My Mate to Have Contact with My Affair Partner? 5/17/2017 Q&A When Does a Betrayed Spouse Find Sexual Desire for Their Mate Again? 5/10/2017 Q&A Should We Move to Get Away from the Affair Partner? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Manage Family Introductions with the Child Born from an Affair? 5/10/2017 Q&A Should I Be Worried about My Spouse Communicating with My Affair Partner's Spouse? 5/10/2017 Q&A After Discovering My Affair My Mate Began a New Relationship. How Does This Work with EMS Online? 5/10/2017 Q&A My Son Discovered My Spouse's Secret App. Now What? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Begin Share the Affair Details with My Mate? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Do We Combat Triggers for Upcoming Events? 5/10/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…789101112131415…next ›last »
