Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? The Power of Small Groups Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 1062 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A If He's Been so Good at Lying, How Can I Trust His Story of the Affair? 10/11/2016 Q&A How Much Should He Tell Me About His Recovery? 10/11/2016 Q&A How do I Keep From Comparing Our Sex Against the Sex He Had with His Affair Partner? 10/11/2016 Q&A If Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater, How do I Feel Safe? 9/28/2016 Q&A Is Recovery from an Affair Possible if My Mate Can't be Empathetic? 9/28/2016 Q&A What Signs do I Look for to Know that My Unfaithful Spouse is in Recovery? 9/28/2016 Q&A How do I Feel Safe When My Mate Wants Someone Else? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can We Safely be Sexually Intimate Again After the Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A Should I Stay in Touch With My Spouse While he is With the Affair Partner? 9/28/2016 Q&A Is This a Reasonable Stand for Me to Take with My Unfaithful Spouse? 9/28/2016 Q&A Can a Person be Addicted to Emotional Affairs? 9/28/2016 Q&A Will My Spouse Come Around or is it Time to End it After the Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A After Decades of Lying, is it Possible to be Truthful? 9/28/2016 Q&A How do I Feel Safe When My Spouse Won't Address the Issues that Allowed the Infidelity? 9/28/2016 Q&A How do I Learn to Enjoy My Spouse Again After Their Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Stop Thinking About Seeking Justice With the Affair Partners? 9/28/2016 Q&A Can We Heal Without Counseling or Other Work After Their Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A Can We Reconcile While the Affair Partner is Still in the Picture? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Do I Stay in a Cycle of Grace Vs. Performance? 9/22/2016 Q&A What if I Need to go Through All the Material I Collected from My Mate's Infidelity? 9/22/2016 Q&A Is There Any Benefit of My Husband Writing Another Termination Letter to His Affair Partner? 9/22/2016 Q&A What Should I Do After These Continued Affairs? 9/22/2016 Q&A My Husband Insists We Move Forward Without Discussing the Affair. Is it Possible? 9/22/2016 Q&A After His Affairs, He Isn't Broken. Can We Heal? 9/22/2016 Q&A What Should I do to Help Her from Going Back to the Affair Partner? 9/22/2016 Q&A How do I Deal With Anger and Lack of Trust After the Affair Has Ended? 9/22/2016 Q&A Am I Overreacting About Occasional Pornography Use? 9/22/2016 Q&A Do We Have a Higher Risk for Relapse? 9/22/2016 Q&A How do We Handle This Challenge Regarding Safety? 9/22/2016 Q&A How Can I Not Blame Myself for Their Affair? 9/14/2016 Q&A How Can Someone Completely Ignore Their Spouse Like This? 9/14/2016 Q&A I Feel Unloved, He Feels Unappreciated, How Can We Heal? 9/14/2016 Q&A Can We Find a Way for Me to Feel Safe and My Mate Keep the Dream Job? 9/14/2016 Q&A Is God Not Opening the Right Door or is My Mate Not Walking Through? 9/14/2016 Q&A Should I Quit My Job to Help My Mate Heal After My Affair? 9/14/2016 Q&A How do I Explain to Our Kids Why Daddy Isn't Here? 9/07/2016 Q&A Should I Let Go or is This Normal Behavior? 9/07/2016 Q&A Could My Mate Not Have the Emotional Capacity to Recover? 9/07/2016 Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healing in My Mate? 9/07/2016 Q&A What are Reasonable Expectations and Words for My Unfaithful Mate? 9/07/2016 Q&A What Can We Do to Make Them Leave Their AP? 9/07/2016 Q&A Why is My Mate Not Making Healing and Recovery a Priority? 9/07/2016 Q&A How Can I Forgive Without Reconciliation? 9/07/2016 Q&A How Do I Face This Challenge With My Father-in-Law? 8/30/2016 Q&A How Can I Move Past My Fear? 8/24/2016 Q&A Why Does My Mate's Disclosure Not Make Sense? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate to Be Tested for STD's? 8/24/2016 Q&A Is it My Mate or the Affair Partner Lying? 8/24/2016 Q&A Is it Fantasy or Love? 8/09/2016 Q&A What Can I Do About My Thoughts Toward Others? 8/09/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…111213141516171819…next ›last »
