Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? 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Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 1070 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Should I Handle Working with My Affair Partner? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Communicate the Importance of Being Real and Authentic? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Proceed When My Spouse Isn't Safe? 11/28/2017 Q&A When We're Being Sexual, How Can I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Know This Hasn't Happened Before? How Can I Know It Won't Happen Again? 11/28/2017 Q&A Why Would the Unfaithful Shame the Betrayed? 11/22/2017 Q&A How Can I Set Better Boundaries with My In-Laws? 11/22/2017 Q&A What Should I Do If Things Are Getting Worse Rather Than Better? 11/15/2017 Q&A Is My Spouse Really Trying to Disconnect from the Affair Partner? 11/15/2017 Q&A How Do We Break the Barrier between Us When the Unfaithful Says He Isn't Sure He Wants to Be Married? 11/15/2017 Q&A Is It Time to Give Up? 11/15/2017 Q&A If I Continue to Have Sex with My Spouse, Am I Letting Him Use Me? 11/10/2017 Q&A What Should the Expectations Be for Long Separations? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Should I Respond to My Betrayed Husband? 11/10/2017 Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can You Create Safety When the Affair Partner Is a Co-Worker? 11/01/2017 Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do We Heal from the Affair While Raising a Child Conceived with the Affair Partner? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do We Set Reasonable Boundaries? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can My Mate Get the AP to Stop Contact? 10/25/2017 Q&A Should I Prepare to Leave or Take Control of Our Healing? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Feel Not Just Safe, but Free Again? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Can I Do If My Wife Has Totally Lost Trust in Me? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Not Feel Like a Victim? 10/10/2017 Q&A When Will My Mate Feel Safe Again? 10/09/2017 Q&A What Do I Do with My Husband's Lack of Remorse? 10/05/2017 Q&A Is My Mates Change of Heart Genuine? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle a Secure Workplace? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Do We Work Together after Relapse? 9/08/2017 Q&A Why Doesn't He 'Get It'? 9/06/2017 Q&A Am I Making a Mistake by Staying with Him? 9/06/2017 Q&A Should the Unfaithful Spouse Lead Our Healing? 9/06/2017 Q&A Should I Inform the AP's Spouse about Their Affair? 8/18/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Wife Get over Her Anger? 8/18/2017 Q&A Should We Be Able to Discuss His Current Activities without a Fight? 8/16/2017 Q&A Should My Husband Be Transparent about His Relationships? 8/16/2017 Q&A What Do You Recommend in My Situation? 8/16/2017 Q&A Will I Get through Post Affair Anger or Is Moving Away the Best Answer? 8/16/2017 Q&A How Do I Regain a Sense of Safety after His Relapse? 8/16/2017 Q&A How Can We De-Escalate Our Toxic Fights? 8/11/2017 Q&A What Should My Next Step Be? 8/11/2017 Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Maintain My Boundaries and File for Divorce? 8/11/2017 Q&A What Am I Doing Wrong Here? 8/10/2017 Q&A Do I Keep Moving towards Him in Hopes He Will Leave It All behind, Once and for All? 8/10/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Help Me with My Anxiety about the Affair Partner? 8/10/2017 Q&A Is Harboring Hope a Step Backwards for Me and My Marriage? 8/10/2017 Q&A Are We Deluded about His Porn and Alcohol Use? 8/10/2017 Q&A Should I Respond to the Affair Partner's Letter to Me? 8/10/2017 Q&A Is It Time to Let Go? 8/02/2017 Q&A What Resources Do You Suggest for Emotional Trauma? 8/02/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…67891011121314…next ›last »
