Affair Recovery

Today, Samuel continues his video discussion on how to deal with the ambivalent spouse after infidelity.

Samuel continues his video series on self pity with a pointed discussion and how it can diffuse momentum in restoration and personal recovery following infidelity and affairs.

Samuel discusses the motivation for recovery following the discovery of infidelity and affairs, and why it's important to know why you're getting healthy.

Samuel tackles in today's video one of the most difficult scenarios in infidelity recovery: ambivalence.

While in recovery from affairs and infidelity, contempt can be a struggle for both the unfaithful and betrayed spouse. Today, continuing the 4 part video series discussing the four horsemen, I address contempt in part 3 of my 4 part video series and how to diffuse it.

GOTTMAN, J. M., & SILVER, N. (1999). The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. New York, Three Rivers Press.

Samuel continues the long awaited discussion on the four horsemen with a 4 part video series, starting with stonewalling. This is a common issues in many marriages, especially those recovering from infidelity and affairs.

Download the Time-Out Protocol Samuel mentions in the video.

GOTTMAN, J. M., & SILVER, N. (1999). The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. New York, Three Rivers Press.

Samuel shares a humorous story in today's video about one of his therapy sessions with Samantha which changed the entire scope of their recovery following infidelity.

Samuel shares in his video about his and Samantha's journey through abandonment and how it actually reset their lives while recovering from his affair.

In today's video, Samuel shares more of his own personal journey into finding gratitude as an unfaithful spouse.

In today's video, Samuel discusses the four horsemen in recovery including the #1 predictor of divorce in marriage and recovery.

GOTTMAN, J. M., & SILVER, N. (1999). The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. New York, Three Rivers Press.

While Samuel fights many self wars, Samantha, his betrayed spouse, does as well.  Today he addresses just one of Samantha's self wars.

Today i share a few key points on how to connect with your betrayed spouse through empathy and remorse.

Have your dreams shattered?  Maybe old dreams need to shatter to give birth to new dreams for you in recovery from infidelity.

Samuel discusses some pivotal moments of Samantha's recovery which helped save Samuel from himself.