All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? The Power of Small Groups Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 4966 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Are There Questions That Would Make the Empathy Exercise More Productive and Healing? 4/16/2020 Q&A Is It Possible for Something like This to Not Change Us? 4/16/2020 Q&A Can I Truly Be the Changed Person I Feel I Am Now? 4/16/2020 Q&A Should We Continue EMS Online If My Spouse Continues to Blame Me for the Affair? 4/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Know Limerance Isn’t What My Husband Feels for Me? 4/09/2020 Q&A Why Do Wayward Spouses Want to Stay in the Marriage? 4/09/2020 Q&A What Was My Husband Telling Himself When He Told Me All These Lies? 4/09/2020 Q&A How Can We Get Our Needs Met during Recovery? 4/02/2020 Q&A How Do You Deal with Someone Who Lacks Self Awareness? 4/02/2020 Q&A Is It Time for a Separation? 4/02/2020 Q&A What Kind of Affair Did My Husband Have and What Does It Mean for Recovery? 4/02/2020 Hope During the COVID-19 Crisis ...and our favorite memes 3/30/2020 Q&A Has Sexual Imprinting Led to My Affair? 3/26/2020 Q&A How Do We Stop This Exhausting, Vicious, Cycle? 3/26/2020 Q&A How Can We Reclaim This Intimate Part of Our Sexuality? 3/26/2020 Q&A Can You Help Me Reframe My Thinking? 3/19/2020 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When My Spouse Is Still in Contact with the Affair Partner? 3/19/2020 Q&A Is My Husband Normal, Sick, or Was He Temporarily Insane? 3/19/2020 Q&A What Can I Do to Support My Mate in Breaking Contact with the Affair Partner? 3/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate Wanting Me to Hate the Affair Partner? 3/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle Being in the Friend Zone with My Wife? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Long Does It Take for the Wayward Spouse to See Clearly? 3/16/2020 Q&A Can I Get My Motivation Back? 3/16/2020 Q&A Is There Any Way to Help My Wayward Spouse? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Is Recovery Different If the Porn Addiction Is Same Sex? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear around My Ex-Wife's Possible Relationship? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Counter the Serious Assault on My Self Esteem? 3/16/2020 Q&A Is It Okay to Have Sex with My Mate under These Circumstances? 3/16/2020 Q&A What Do I Do If My Husband Won't Get Help? 3/16/2020 Q&A What More Can Be Done to Save My Marriage? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Can I Make Sure That the past Doesn't Ruin the Present? 3/16/2020 Q&A Can My Wife Get the Help She Needs Given This Situation? 3/16/2020 Q&A What Can We Do When My Husband’s Only True Confidant Is a Serious Trigger for Me? 3/16/2020 Q&A Can a Couple Survive Multiple Sexual Infidelities Including One Embroiled in Legal Issues? 3/16/2020 Q&A Do Serious Health Issues Impact a Spouses Decision to Have an Affair? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Can I Be Authentic and Safe with My Emotions during Recovery? 3/16/2020 Q&A Is It Possible to Have Significantly Recovered at This Point in Healing? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Find Balance between Healing Myself and Healing Our Relationship? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Address My Spouse's Flirtatious Behaviors? 3/16/2020 Q&A When My Husband Turns My Anger around on Me Is That Gaslighting? 3/12/2020 Q&A What Behaviors Constitute Relapse? 3/10/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse See's the Affair as My Fault? 3/10/2020 Q&A What Things Are Considered a Life Squeeze in the Cycle of Failure Exercise? 3/10/2020 Q&A Are Walls Instead of Boundaries Necessary for a Season? 3/10/2020 Q&A Is Sending an Apology Letter the Right Thing to Do? 3/10/2020 Q&A Is Depression Normal Eight Months out from Discovery? 3/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Become Safe for Someone Who Is Unsafe for Me? 3/03/2020 Q&A How Do You Define Healing for the Betrayed Spouse? 3/03/2020 Q&A Can a Couple Really Benefit from Doing This Work Every Week without the Wayward Spouse Initiating and Participating in Disclosure Attempts? 3/03/2020 Q&A Is It Possible That She Believed Her Emotional Affair Was Not Infidelity? 3/03/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…212223242526272829…next ›last »