All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Could You? 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Part 2: 7 Myths Undermining Forgiveness 11/06/2019 Q&A How Can I Encourage Behavior without Bitterness? 11/05/2019 Q&A What Recommendations Do You Have for Working on Our Individual Healing and Healing the Relationship? 11/05/2019 Q&A Did We Start Recovery Too Late after Discovery? 11/05/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal from Losing My Family Unit? 11/05/2019 Q&A Why Can't My Mate Be Honest? 11/05/2019 Q&A Can You Recommend Ways to Overcome Vulnerable Thoughts and Feelings? 11/05/2019 Q&A What Do These Forms of Trauma Treatment Actually Do? 11/05/2019 Q&A Can You Help with My Confusion? 11/05/2019 Q&A Are We Doing Enough to Heal? 11/05/2019 Q&A How Can I Encourage My Mate to Get Professional Help? 11/05/2019 Q&A Is It Ever Going to Get Better? 11/05/2019 Q&A How Do I Co-Parent with Someone I Don’t Respect? 11/05/2019 Q&A Can You Explain What the LIFE Exercise is? 11/05/2019 Q&A How Can I Get the Safety I Need in Our Recovery? 11/05/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle a Relapse in the Middle of Recovery? 11/05/2019 Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for Overcoming Comparison Thoughts? 11/05/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 1: Self Assessment 10/30/2019 Q&A Is This Level of Detail Healthy for Recovery? 10/23/2019 Q&A What More Can We Do to Set Boundaries with Family Members? 10/23/2019 Q&A Do You Recommend That I Try to Convince My Mate to Push through Our Healing and Recovery? 10/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Protect Myself While Working Towards Healing? 10/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome This Sexual Trigger? 10/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle Divorce When the Affair Partner Intentionally Got Pregnant? 10/23/2019 Q&A What Do I Do If My Wife Still Wants to Spend Time with Her Accomplice in Her Affair? 10/23/2019 Q&A How Do We Restore Our Relationship with Our Children? 10/23/2019 Q&A Am I Being Overly Sensitive? 10/23/2019 Trauma from Infidelity: An Interview with a Specialist 10/23/2019 Q&A Do You Have Advice for Navigating Though EMS Online and Harboring Hope Simultaneously? 10/16/2019 Q&A Why Did My Mate Take the Affair Partner to the Same Places He Has Taken Me? 10/16/2019 Q&A Do My Sexual Dreams Indicate a Deeper Underlying Problem? 10/16/2019 Q&A Is My Social Anxiety Normal at This Stage of Recovery? 10/16/2019 Q&A At What Point Should We Get a Restraining Order for the Affair Partner? 10/16/2019 Q&A How Can I Be Vulnerable If My Mate Has Only Committed to One Year of Healing? 10/16/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal, Recover, and Prevent Relapse? 10/16/2019 Q&A Will I Ever Fully Understand My Mate's Pain? 10/16/2019 Social Shame Survey Results: What We Learned from Ashley Madison 10/16/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle Problems That Occur Late at Night? 10/02/2019 Q&A What Do You Recommend for Diminishing or Ceasing Anxiety Attacks? 10/02/2019 Q&A Does This Ever Completely Go Away? 10/02/2019 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Changing How I View Myself Physically? 10/02/2019 Q&A Can You Offer Encouragement for Me? 10/02/2019 Q&A Is There a Difference between Long-Term and Short-Term Affairs? 10/02/2019 Q&A How Do I Show My Wife I Get It? 10/02/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…252627282930313233…next ›last »