For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Power of Small Groups 1245 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can I Stay With a Sex Addict? 2/10/2015 Q&A How am I Supposed to Accept the Idea of Relapse? 2/10/2015 Q&A Is it Possible that I Won't Recover? 2/10/2015 Q&A Should I Tell the AP's Spouse? 2/10/2015 Q&A Is Relapse Inevitable? 2/10/2015 Q&A Can We Reclaim our Territory? 1/29/2015 Q&A Why Should the Betrayed Spouse do all the Hard Work? 1/29/2015 Q&A Looking for Hope 1/23/2015 Q&A Is it Safe to Stay? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Repulsion I have Towards my Spouse? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Help my Pain While my Spouse has Newfound Happiness? 1/23/2015 Q&A Can I Leave Him? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Do I Get Past the AP Being in my House?! 1/23/2015 Q&A My Spouse is Maintaining Contact with his AP. What do I do? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Forgive a 7 Year Affair? 1/23/2015 Q&A How do I Know if I Have Forgiven Enough Times? 1/20/2015 Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Will Not Share. What do I do? 1/12/2015 Q&A Can a Man Be in Love With Two Women at the Same Time? 1/12/2015 Q&A How do I Start to Trust Again? 1/12/2015 Q&A Can We Recover From This? 1/06/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't my Husband Understand the Damage he is Causing? 1/06/2015 Q&A How Can I Stop Thinking About HIS Affair Partner? 1/06/2015 Q&A Should I Allow my Husband to Move Back in? 1/06/2015 Q&A Can we Recover Without Romanticism? 12/19/2014 Q&A My Husband was Unfaithful for 10 Years. How can he Love me? 12/19/2014 Q&A How can he Love me and Love her? 12/19/2014 Q&A How do I Get Away From Pretend Normal? 12/19/2014 Q&A How do I Transition from being Married to being Single with a Child? 12/19/2014 Q&A My Husband Isn't Taking Action. Should I Leave? 12/19/2014 Q&A How do I Deal With my Anger and Emotions? 12/16/2014 Q&A How can I Stop the Images from Popping up in my Mind? 12/16/2014 Q&A How Can I Show my Husband he is a Sex Addict? 12/16/2014 Q&A Can I Heal Without Full Disclosure? 12/16/2014 Q&A How far do I Push for the Truth? 12/16/2014 Q&A Is Pornography Okay for Spouses to Watch Together? 12/16/2014 Q&A When will my Husband Understand his Feelings so that I can Feel Safe? 12/15/2014 Q&A What is the Difference Between being Angry and Assertive? 12/15/2014 Q&A Will the Repulsion go Away? 12/15/2014 Q&A Can I Recover Without Details? 12/15/2014 Q&A Am I Crazy, or is my Husband Telling the Truth? 12/11/2014 Q&A Am I Over the Top for Feeling this Way? 12/11/2014 Q&A How Can I Calm the Hauntings? 12/11/2014 Q&A How Can I Enjoy an Activity with my Spouse When he did it With his Affair Partner? 12/11/2014 Q&A Is it Common for Unfaithful to Confess Affair but Continue Lying? 12/11/2014 Q&A If my Husband Affaired down, did his Affair Partner? 12/11/2014 Q&A Limerance and Male Compartmentalization 12/11/2014 Q&A My Husband Refuses to get Help and Give me Disclosure 12/11/2014 Q&A What Can I do to Create Empathy Between me and my Spouse? 12/11/2014 Q&A Why is the Unfaithful Blessed While the Betrayed Loses it All? 12/11/2014 Q&A How can I get my Spouse to let me Heal? 12/10/2014 Pages« first‹ previous…171819202122232425next ›last »