Q&A Should I Cut off All Contact With my Husband?

I am currently in the Harboring Hope group. My husband moved in with his AP and I have not really gotten full disclosure. I discovered phone records and approached him. After many not very nice phone conversations, he does not have any remorse. I felt no other option but to file for divorce. I have stopped talking to him on the telephone because I felt that he was getting healing out of it but I wasn’t. I felt as if he was mentally abusing me (we have been married for 40 years). I se...