Q&A Should I Cut off All Contact With my Husband? Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. I am currently in the Harboring Hope group. My husband moved in with his AP and I have not really gotten full disclosure. I discovered phone records and approached him. After many not very nice phone conversations, he does not have any remorse. I felt no other option but to file for divorce. I have stopped talking to him on the telephone because I felt that he was getting healing out of it but I wasn’t. I felt as if he was mentally abusing me (…To continue reading, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to read the full article.Sections: Recovery LibraryLeslie and John's callsRL_Category: Emotional RegulationFor The Hurt SpouseRecovering AloneSafety in RecoverySeparation and DivorceRL_Media Type: Audio