Q&A Could my Spouse be Held Back Without Full Disclosure?

Question

My husband and I attended the Dec EMS Weekend after he revealed he had a 2nd affair after 7 years with the same co-worker. We are attending Christian counseling and working the Beyond EMS recovery . He maintains it was not an emotional affair but primarily sexual. That she is low hanging fruit and was ready and willing. He said it's over and it's not about choosing me or her. That he is feeling like he is suffocating and needs to jump start his heart. I feel...