Q&A How Do I Get Past the AP Being in my House?! Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question My husband retired before me and spent the winters in our home in California. I would go back and forth when I could. I went to over 80 open houses to find our dream home. I now know that he brought his AP there numerous times. In fact, she stayed there before I did as he flew down to take possession and they spent a couple of days there. Before disclosure, we did a major renovation and she has not been there since. I'm trying to embrace…To continue reading, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to read the full article.Sections: Recovery LibraryLeslie and John's callsRL_Category: Emotional RegulationFind HopeFor The Hurt SpouseHandling DiscoveryIntrusive ThoughtsWhy They Did ItRL_Media Type: Audio