For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How to Survive Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Power of Small Groups The Problem with Forgiveness How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 319 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Deal with the Physical Pain of Not Ejaculating? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle Working with My Affair Partner? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Answer the Question, 'Do You Promise You'll Never Do This to Me Again'? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Show Empathy for My Spouse? 11/15/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Consequences of My Actions? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Can Two Seriously Broken People Move Forward? 11/10/2017 Q&A Will Our Situation Change? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Should I Respond to My Betrayed Husband? 11/10/2017 Q&A (HFH) How Can I Connect with My Mate If They Don’t Want Me? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Get past 'Why' and 'How Could You Do This' Questions? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Does an Unfaithful Spouse Cope with Continued Shaming from the Betrayed Spouse? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can I Achieve If I Don't Answer Comparison Questions? 11/01/2017 Q&A Why Can’t I Remember When My Affair Started? 10/25/2017 Q&A Are the Details of Relationships Prior to Marriage worth Sharing? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Can I Do If My Wife Has Totally Lost Trust in Me? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Show Her We Can Recover from This? 10/10/2017 Q&A When Do We Address My Mates Contributions to Our Marriage Issues? 10/10/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Not Feel Like a Victim? 10/10/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle the Trauma of Infidelity? 9/27/2017 Q&A “What Are Our Chances of Reconciliation? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Far Back Should We Go? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse Not Compare Himself to My Awful Affair Partner? 9/08/2017 Q&A When Will It Start to Get Better? 9/06/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle These Triggers? 9/06/2017 Q&A Is There No Longer Hope for Recovery? 9/06/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Wife Get over Her Anger? 8/18/2017 Q&A Am I Pushing Her Away by Wanting Her Too Much? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle My Wife’s Anger? 7/26/2017 Q&A When Will My Husband Visualize Himself with Me Instead of Seeing Me with the AP 7/26/2017 Q&A What If I Didn't Affair Down? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Partner with Their Flooding? 7/26/2017 What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library 5/24/2017 Surviving Infidelity: Are You Looking for an Explanation? 12/01/2016 Q&A How Can I Show True Empathy for My Wife? 10/18/2016 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 4/13/2016 The Story that Started Affair Recovery 2/24/2016 What’s the Most Effective Role for Me? 10/27/2015 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Stay Out of Our Old Ruts? 10/27/2015 How Can My Unfaithful Wife Take Initiative In Recovery? 10/27/2015 How Can the Betrayer Get Past Guilt When Spouse Gives Constant Criticism? 10/27/2015 The Ashley Madison Hack - Surviving Discovery 7/29/2015 Social Shame Survey 7/15/2015 Q&A How Can we Progress to a Better Marriage? 6/23/2015 Q&A Why do They Continue to Lie? 5/12/2015 Q&A My Spouse Works With Their Affair Partner. Will They Relapse? 5/04/2015 Q&A Can Our Marriage Begin Again? 5/04/2015 Q&A Why are Some Sex Addict Meetings Co-Ed? 5/04/2015 Q&A How Can I Deal with the Affair Partner Having Been in my House? 4/21/2015 Q&A (HFH) Rick, What was Your Personal Experience With Relapse? 4/15/2015 Q&A What is Each Spouse's Role in Handling Triggers? 2/24/2015 Pages« first‹ previous1234567next ›last »