Recovering Alone Recovery can be won even if your spouse is not willing to participate just yet. What is most important is your own individual recovery so that you can thrive in a life of new hope and restoration. Must Reads more less Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 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How to Survive Infidelity 168 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Heal When I Feel He’s Lying and Still Entangled with a Coworker? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Proceed without Acknowledgement That It Was an Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A Am I Being Emotionally Abused since His Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Get past the Fears of What He Will Do If I Leave Him? 7/12/2017 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Support Him When He Struggles to Be Safe for Us? 7/12/2017 Q&A Will Marriage Therapy Work If the Unfaithful Spouse Doesn't Have to Discuss What Happened? 7/12/2017 Q&A Should We Divorce Because We Can't Respect Each Other's Feelings? 6/21/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Safely from Here in the Presence of a Restraining Order? 6/21/2017 Q&A Why Does He Say He Wants to Save the Marriage? 6/07/2017 Q&A Should We Throw in the Towel before Things Get Worse? 6/07/2017 Q&A What Does a Betrayed Spouse Do When the Unfaithful Spouse Leaves? 5/26/2017 Q&A Should I Continue Forward or Wait until He Wants to Recommit to Us? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Spouse to Overcome Ambivalence and Make a Decision? 5/26/2017 Q&A Would a Separation Be Appropriate or Beneficial for Me to Get Healing? 5/26/2017 Q&A What Do We Do during This Limbo? 5/24/2017 Q&A Should We Move to Get Away from the Affair Partner? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Long Is Long Enough? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Rekindle the Love for My Mate If They Won't Cooperate? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Do I Move Forward after Betrayal and Divorce? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Do I Achieve Forgiveness? 5/03/2017 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Do We Get through This without Being Together? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Continue to Support Myself and Keep Our Tenuous Truce without Burning Out? 4/12/2017 Q&A Is my loneliness an excuse to hold onto our marriage? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is it a good idea to move out for a temporary separation? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I get my unfaithful spouse to cooperate? 4/05/2017 Q&A How does one achieve closure from a marriage? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is there hope or should I follow through with divorce? 4/05/2017 Q&A What Should I Do about His Behavior towards Me? 3/22/2017 Q&A Should I Continue to Focus on My Own Therapy at This Point? 3/08/2017 Q&A Could This Be the End? 2/15/2017 Q&A Can you Offer some Advice for Our Complex Situation? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can I Work Through the Difficulties Regarding my Husband Leaving me for his Affair Partner? 2/08/2017 Q&A How do I Disclose to my Unfaithful Husband that I'm Leaving? 2/08/2017 Q&A Is it Time to Move Forward so He Doesn't Hold me Back? 1/24/2017 Q&A Would it be Best Overall if we Divorced so he Could Pursue his Affair Partner? 1/18/2017 Q&A How do I Get my Spouse to Understand my Need for Full Disclosure? The Affair is Ongoing. 12/20/2016 Q&A When do I Say I'm Moving On? 12/20/2016 Q&A I want Recovery to Work, but Things Aren't Changing. Will it Get Better? 12/16/2016 Q&A What are the Options Available Without Full Disclosure? 12/16/2016 Q&A How do I Handle my Wife's Lack of Empathy? 12/16/2016 Q&A Based on our Situation, Would it be Best to Separate? 12/16/2016 Q&A How Can We Heal from Her Affair Under these Circumstances? 12/07/2016 Q&A How can we Heal if we don't Talk? 12/07/2016 Q&A How do you Enforce Boundaries Short of Separation or Divorce? 11/30/2016 Q&A Is it OK for Me to Say No Even Though it May Make Things Worse? 11/30/2016 Q&A Have you Seen a Marriage Recover from this Kind of Affair? 11/30/2016 Q&A How Can I Not Feel Lonely While My Spouse Grieves the Loss of His Affair Partner? 11/30/2016 Q&A Why Can't He, and Will He Ever, Understand My Pain? 11/30/2016 Pages« first‹ previous1234next ›last »
