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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 1218 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can You Help Me Explain Why What My Husband Is Doing Isn't Working? 5/16/2018 Q&A Will EMS Online Be Effective for Us If My Mate Doesn't View Online Interactions as 'Real'? 5/09/2018 Q&A How Common Is It for the Unfaithful Wife to Shut Down? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Long Can This Process Take and What, If Anything, Should I Be Doing Differently? 5/07/2018 Q&A Is Recovery Delayed Because We Are Also Best Friends? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Do You Get over Forbidden Love? 5/02/2018 Q&A How Do I Cope When I Feel Inferior to the Affair Partner? 4/11/2018 Q&A How Can I Use Harboring Hope to Recover from Infidelity in Two Marriages? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Go on without Full Disclosure? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Move Forward When Everything Seems Tainted? 4/05/2018 Q&A Is It True That Sometimes "Rock Bottom" Is the Best Foundation from Which to Build On? 3/28/2018 Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for Handling the Transgressions That Occur before D-Day and After? 3/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Navigate Giving My Spouse Time to Show Effort? 3/23/2018 Q&A Should We Tell Our Parents about the Infidelity? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Actions Are Necessary from the Unfaithful during Recovery? 3/23/2018 Q&A Should We Combine the EMS Program with Other Things? (e.g. Couples Therapy or Married for Life) 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do People Heal from Betrayal? 3/12/2018 Q&A What Questions Can I Ask That Won't Lead to Intrusive Thoughts? 3/12/2018 Q&A Will My Mate Forever Grieve Losing the Affair Partner? 3/05/2018 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Change My Perspective of My Mate? 3/05/2018 Q&A How Do We Show Commitment without Making False Vows or Promises? 2/28/2018 Q&A How Can Family and Friends Support Us during Recovery? 2/28/2018 Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling 2/28/2018 How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018 Q&A What Steps Should I Take for Personal Healing? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do We Address the Affair without It Being so Negative? 2/14/2018 Q&A How to We Navigate Recovery with a History of Abuse? 2/14/2018 Q&A What’s the Best Way to Process with My Mate? 2/14/2018 Q&A Should You Have a Therapist of the Same Sex? 2/14/2018 Practical Tools for Betrayed Spouses 2/14/2018 Q&A Can Hope Keep You Stuck in a Toxic Relationship? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Can We Heal without a Shared History? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Does My Mate Turn Their Life Around? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Do I Support My Mates Grieving Process? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Do We Start over without Reviewing the Past? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do You Reclaim the Losses from the Affair? 1/23/2018 Q&A What Do You Suggest When the Unfaithful Spouse Seems Numb? 1/23/2018 Q&A Are We Generating a Pattern of 'Pretend Normal'? 1/23/2018 Q&A Who Do We Tell about the Affair? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do Addictions Play into That Sequence of Recovery? 1/22/2018 Q&A What Do I Do When There Are No Actions behind the Words? 1/22/2018 Q&A Should I Give My Mate Another Chance? 1/10/2018 Q&A Is It Unreasonable to Expect My Mate to Be Honest about Their Needs? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Do Actions Affect Identity? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Do I Cope with the Deception? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Do I Feel Stuck? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Did My Husband Treat Me Like His Greatest Enemy during His Secret Affair? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Can We Find an Appropriate Couples Counselor? 12/20/2017 Q&A Does the Betrayed Spouse Have to Know Every Affair in Order to Heal the Marriage? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Do You Work on a Marriage You Might End up Leaving? 12/20/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…101112131415161718…next ›last »
