Recovery Fundamentals Start with the basics when first walking the road to recovery. Developing a systematic plan for recovery will enable you to stick to your basic recovery principles even when things get tough. Must Reads more less Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Power of Small Groups How to Survive Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Could You? 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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 1218 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is This Co-Dependency? 8/02/2017 Q&A How Do I Reconcile These Opposing Views? 8/02/2017 Q&A Could Someone Really Think This? 8/02/2017 Laverne and Lischia's Mentor Video 8/01/2017 Q&A Am I Pushing Her Away by Wanting Her Too Much? 7/26/2017 Q&A What Does My Mate Need to Feel Safe? 7/26/2017 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 7/26/2017 Q&A What If I Didn't Affair Down? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Do We Cope with Differing Marriage Histories? 7/19/2017 Q&A How Do We Move beyond 'Pretend Normal'? 7/19/2017 Q&A What Do You Mean by 'My Mate Is Never My Problem. My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me'? 7/19/2017 Everyone Thought I was Crazy for Staying: Amanda and Kenneth’s Story 7/19/2017 Kenneth and Amanda's Mentor Video 7/18/2017 Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward? 7/12/2017 Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle All of Life's Issues without Losing Focus of the Infidelity? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Proceed without Acknowledgement That It Was an Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Tell Others about Our Recovery and How Do I Handle Being Triggered While Seeing Clients? 7/12/2017 Q&A What's Your Take on an Unfaithful Wife Who Still Blames the Marriage for the Affair 1 Year from Discovery? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse When He Is Drowning in Shame? 7/12/2017 Q&A Should I Not Bring up the Affair Again? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Do I Do with a Spouse That Blames Me for the Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Is Healing from a Long-Term Affair Different Than Healing from a Short-Term Affair or One Night Stand? 7/12/2017 Q&A Do We Revert Back to Our Old State Once the Threat Disappears? 7/12/2017 Q&A He Wants to Do the Bootcamp but I Don't. What Do We Do? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Know If a Counselor Is a Good Fit? 7/12/2017 Q&A Is It Beneficial to Read My Mates Journaling during Hope for Healing? 7/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Know If This Is Progress or Pretend Normal? 6/28/2017 Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel I Can’t Get Past His Infidelity? 6/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Come to Terms With the Unending Lies? 6/28/2017 Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? 6/28/2017 Q&A What Is a D-Day Anniversary Like for the Unfaithful? 6/21/2017 Q&A Should We Divorce Because We Can't Respect Each Other's Feelings? 6/21/2017 Q&A Should We Make Amends by Contacting Former Affair Partners and Spouses? 6/21/2017 Q&A What Can We Expect from EMS Online? 6/07/2017 Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Is Really Changing? 6/07/2017 Q&A What Should We Discuss When We Check-In with Each Other? 6/07/2017 Q&A How Do I Help Her with the Anniversary? 6/07/2017 Q&A Is This All Part of the Process or Is It Something Else? 6/07/2017 Q&A Forgiveness and Infidelity 6/07/2017 Q&A Letting Go: Explain the Task of Rewriting History 5/26/2017 Q&A How Should I Handle the Anniversary Dates of the Affair? 5/26/2017 Q&A What Do I Do about My Spouse Refusing to See His Affair Partner Negatively? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Important Is It for My Husband to Choose Me versus Need Me? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Overcome Her Shame? 5/26/2017 Q&A Can You Speak to Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Can I Encourage My Spouse to Engage in Healing Conversations? 5/24/2017 Q&A What Do You Recommend for Our Counseling Situation? 5/24/2017 Q&A What's Important to Process After His Infidelity? 5/24/2017 What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? 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