Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 1053 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can We Stay Safe While Traveling? 5/21/2019 Q&A Should We Take EMS Online Even If There Is Still Contact with the Affair Partner? 5/21/2019 Q&A What Would Be Considered a Relapse or Relapse Behavior? 5/21/2019 Q&A Why Do I Feel the One Place I Can Be Myself and Be Safe Is a Place I Now Get Attacked? 5/21/2019 Q&A Should Safety Override Pursuing the Path We Think Might Be Best for Us? 5/15/2019 Andy and Laura Mentor Video 5/14/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Would You Recommend upon Reconciliation? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle the Affair Partner's Continued Intrusion in Our Life? 5/08/2019 Q&A Should We Disclose the AP's Personal Information to Our Mate? 5/08/2019 Q&A Is It Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Journal about the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe with Multiple Online Accounts? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe from Another Relapse? 4/30/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Should We Set for Transparency? 4/17/2019 Q&A How Do You Address Your Wounds While at the Same Time Feeling Remorse for Your Mate? 4/17/2019 Q&A How Do We Set Boundaries When Children Are Involved? 4/10/2019 Q&A Is It Safe to Stay with Someone Who Hasn't Fully Disclosed the Affair? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Husband to Tell the Truth? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Do We Set Boundaries When the Affair Partner Has Close Family Ties? 4/10/2019 The Power of Small Groups 4/10/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safe Boundaries with Social Media? 4/03/2019 Q&A How Do I Know If My Partner Is Safe? 4/03/2019 Q&A How Can I Show My Positive Change in Spite of Relapse? 4/03/2019 Q&A What Steps Should I Take after Relapse? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety in the Workplace? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Do You Enforce Boundaries? 3/13/2019 Q&A Should I Set Boundaries with Friends during Recovery? 3/13/2019 Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much? 3/13/2019 Q&A If My Spouse Relapses during EMS Online, Should We Start Over? 3/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Set Safe Boundaries in Our Recovery? 3/04/2019 Q&A Am I Being Unreasonable with Accountability? 3/04/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Should We Set with the Opposite Sex? 2/22/2019 Q&A How Do I Get to a Place of Safety and Intimacy with My Mate? 2/20/2019 Rodney and Angela Mentor Video 2/14/2019 Q&A What Steps Do You Take to Find the Right Accountability Partner? 2/13/2019 Q&A How Can I Get My Mate to Create Safety? 2/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Come Back from a Relapse? 2/06/2019 Q&A Can I Every Truly Be Safe for My Spouse? 1/30/2019 Q&A Where Is God in All of This? 1/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Find Better Accountability and Create Safety? 1/30/2019 Q&A Is His Explanation Probable? 1/28/2019 Q&A Should We Set Boundaries with Masturbation in Marriage? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Apply Boundaries and Reconcile? 1/23/2019 Q&A Should My Wayward Spouse Find a New Career to Create Safety? 1/22/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Should We Set around Our Emotions? 1/22/2019 Q&A Should I Give My Mate a Second Chance? 1/16/2019 Q&A How Do We Manage Safe Boundaries with a Child from the Affair? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety When Anonymity Is a Requirement in 12 Step Programs? 1/09/2019 Q&A Is Mentoring Another Form of Pimping? 12/14/2018 Q&A Is ‘Rubber Necking’ or Blatant Attention to Other Flirtatious Women Part of Infidelity? 12/12/2018 Q&A How Do I Make My Mate Feel Safe After All of This? 12/05/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…2345678910…next ›last »