Why They Did It
The lingering question that haunts almost everyone recovering from infidelity: Why? The unfaithful spouse may not know why just yet, but use these articles to gain insight and, eventually, freedom from the uncertainty.
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371 Resources
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Audio Q&A (HH) Can I and Should I Believe Him? 3/24/2016
Audio Q&A (HH) What Feelings Do the Unfaithful Experience? 3/24/2016
Video Q&A Is it Normal for Me to be Accused of Guilt? 3/21/2016
Video Q&A How Can They Say They Won't do it Again if They Don't Even Know the Why? 3/15/2016
Video Q&A Am I Reaping What I Sowed Many Years Ago? 3/01/2016
Video Q&A Can You Help Simplify our Complicated Idea of Love? 3/01/2016
Video Q&A What Kind of Affair Was it? Does it Matter? 1/26/2016
Video Q&A Is She Addicted to a Narcissist? 1/26/2016
Audio Q&A Can You Elaborate on Sex Addicts and Their Emotional Immaturity? 12/23/2015
Audio Q&A Is it Possible to Heal All of This Alone? 12/23/2015
Audio Q&A Which Affair Types Are Most Devastating? 12/23/2015
Audio Q&A I Don't Know Whether to Stay or Go 12/23/2015
Video Q&A What Are Your Thoughts About Our Current State of Healing? 12/22/2015
Video Q&A How Do I Forgive When it Wasn't a Mistake? 12/15/2015
Video Q&A How Can My Mate Find Relevancy With the 'Why' Chapter? 12/01/2015
Video Q&A Did She Really Betray Her True Nature? 12/01/2015
Video Q&A Was This Authority Rape? 12/01/2015
Video Q&A Is It Because Of An Addiction Or Compulsion? 11/10/2015
Video Q&A What Made Him Do This, Narcissism Or Addiction? 11/10/2015
Video Q&A Did My ADHD Create Vulnerability for My Spouse? 10/20/2015
Video Find Strength for Your Journey With the Survivors' Blog 10/12/2015
Video Q&A Why Even Justify This? 10/06/2015
Video Q&A Betrayal Begins With You? 10/06/2015
Video Q&A Are My Questions Unfair? 9/28/2015
Video Q&A Normal People do Not do This! 9/22/2015
Video Q&A Why His Ex? 9/22/2015
Video Q&A I Love Her, Why Did I Cheat on Her? 9/22/2015
Video Q&A How can I Feel Safe when my Mate's Affair was with their Ex? 9/17/2015
Video Q&A Why did he Marry me when he was with her? 9/17/2015
Video Q&A Why Wouldn't he End it? 9/17/2015
Video Q&A I Want him to Want me... Will the Feelings Return? 9/17/2015
Video Q&A Is it More Difficult for Men to Recover from Betrayal? 9/17/2015
Video Q&A Can I Survive my Husband's Limerance? 9/17/2015
Video Q&A Why Doesn't he Want it? 9/01/2015
Video Q&A Is this because of his Father? 9/01/2015
Audio Q&A How can I Accept and Forgive when I Don't Understand? 8/27/2015
Video Q&A Would it Help my Mate to Understand my Rationalizations? 8/25/2015
Video Q&A How can I Compete with the Affair Partner? 8/18/2015
Video Q&A Why Doesn't he Express his Love? 8/11/2015
Video Q&A Should I Just Divorce and Leave Him? 8/11/2015
Video Q&A Does Chronic Pain Increase Vulnerability to Have an Affair? 8/04/2015
Audio Q&A Does Chronic Pain Contribute to Affairs? 7/31/2015
Audio Q&A Was it a Desire to be Desired? 7/31/2015
Video Q&A They had to Know the Affair Would Devastate me, Right? 7/28/2015
Video Q&A What Effects do Antidepressants Have on Infidelity? 7/07/2015
Video Q&A Is it Possible to be Mean to Someone you Love? 7/07/2015
Video Q&A How can I Regain Self-Esteem? 6/23/2015
Video Q&A What are the Issues Related to Being a F.O.B.A.D.? 6/23/2015
Video Q&A What Boundaries are Needed to Keep my Family Safe? 6/09/2015
Video Q&A How can I Manage my Anger in a Healthy Way? 6/09/2015

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