Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question My husband had multiple physical affairs and needless to say I am devastated. After being on the AR website I am seeing that betrayed spouses are just as devastated by emotional affairs that did not involve sex. I would guess it would be easier to "get over" my husband being emotionally versus physically involved with someone else and even easier if he was just viewing pornography. Are emotional affairs (or viewing pornography) less, mo…