Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question My husband had been suffering from pretty severe chronic pain for a few years prior to his affair and some erectile dysfunction in connection with the pain. He was always a very upright Christian man with a lot of integrity prior to this, and we have had a pretty solid marriage although we did have a deficit in the area of physical intimacy because of my lack of desire. He was bitter about this and kept it to himself. I know that is a …