For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 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