Helping Your Children

Learn how to protect your children from unnecessary pain and confusion. Here you’ll find tools for how and what to tell the kids as well as how to encourage their healing as well.

143 Resources
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Video icon Q&A How Do We Manage Interactions With Our Children After They Discovered The Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A Will My Children Lose Respect for Me If I Reconcile?
Video icon Q&A How Much Harder Will Our Recovery Be in This Situation?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do to Protect My, and My Children’s, Heart?
Video icon Q&A What Should We Tell the Kids If They Ask Why Dad Is Living in the Basement?
Video icon Q&A What Do We Do When the Affair Partner Refuses to Cooperate about the Child?
Video icon Q&A How Do My Spouse and I Get On the Same Level When It Comes to Appropriate Communication to His Affair Partner about Their Daughter?
Video icon Q&A Should I Be Considering Any Restrictions on Her Access to Our Children If She Continues to Act Out?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Find the Strength to Stay When It Means I Will Have to Be a Father to the Child of Her Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Best Help Our Child Who Discovered the Affair?
Video icon Q&A What Do We Tell Our Teenage Children?
Video icon Q&A What Resources, Books, Videos or Programs Would You Suggest For Grown Children Who Just Found Out about Their Father's Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A When Is It Appropriate to Tell Adult Children about Their Mother's Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle This Lapse in Motherhood When I’ve Been Needed?
Video icon Q&A Should I Stay in the Marriage for My Kids?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Help Our Adult and Teenage Children?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Tell Our 9 Year Old Daughter?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When My Teenage Daughters Think I Am the One Refusing to Forgive My Husband and Work on the Marriage, 'Even Though Their Dad Is Trying to Make It up to Me'?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do with an Ambivalent Partner When a Baby Is Involved?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Safely Co-Parent with the Affair Partner When a Child Is Born as a Result of the Affair?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do When There Is an outside Child the Same Age as Your Own from the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Is It Codependent to Stay in a Marriage for the Happiness of Your Children?
Video icon Q&A Should We Tell Our Kids about the Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A Would We Be Wrong to Cut off a Child Born as a Result of the Affair to Save Our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Explain the Pain I’m Going Through, from the Betrayal Trauma My Husband Caused, to My Children?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Feel Connected to My Sons Again so I Don't Take This out on Them?
Video icon Q&A How Does Pregnancy with the Affair Partner Affect the Healing Process?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Achieve Closure and Develop a New Healthy Parenting Relationship?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle Our Children?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do Now That There Is a Child with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal from Losing My Family Unit?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Co-Parent with Someone I Don’t Respect?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Restore Our Relationship with Our Children?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Restore Our Relationship with Our Children?
Video icon Q&A Can I Ever Get Passed Sharing My Daughter with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Protect My Children through All of This?
Video icon Q&A Do We Tell Our Son about the Affair?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do to Protect My Children?
Video icon Q&A If I Draw a Line in the Sand about My Affair It Could Result in Me Losing My Child, What Do You Suggest?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Protect My Kids from the Damage of Divorce?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Move Forward When a Child Has Been Conceived with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Should We Stay in the Marriage for the Kids?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Set Boundaries When Children Are Involved?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Convince My Husband That It Is Time to Tell Our Son?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Set Boundaries When the Affair Partner Has Close Family Ties?
Video icon Q&A Is My Mate to Blame for Our Child's Behavior?
Video icon Q&A How to We Share Our Story with Our Children?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help My Children Heal after the Separation?
Video icon Q&A Am I a Hypocrite for Staying?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Manage Safe Boundaries with a Child from the Affair?