Rebuilding Trust In the short run, transparency can take the place of trust until trust is reestablished. Learn the components of trust, how to function in its absence, and what it takes to reconnect. Must Reads more less Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How to Survive Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 358 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do We Set Boundaries When the Affair Partner Has Close Family Ties? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safe Boundaries with Social Media? 4/03/2019 Q&A What Steps Should I Take after Relapse? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Do You Enforce Boundaries? 3/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Open My Heart Again? 3/13/2019 Q&A Will the Lies Ever Stop? 2/20/2019 Q&A How Do We Get to Full Disclosure? 1/23/2019 Q&A Should I Give My Mate a Second Chance? 1/16/2019 Q&A How Can I Regain Trust after so Much Deception? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Can We Overcome This Lack of Transparency? 1/03/2019 Q&A Should I Insist or Let It Go? 12/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Tell If My Spouse Is Being Honest? 12/05/2018 Q&A How Can I Regain Her Trust Again? 11/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Find a Credible Polygrapher in My Area and Should I Use One? 11/26/2018 Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Refuses Full Disclosure? 11/26/2018 Q&A How Can We Create Safety When We Are Apart? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Break My Cycle of Lying? 11/07/2018 Q&A What Do You Do When the Betrayed Spouse Doesn’t Believe Your Story? 11/07/2018 Q&A Can We Ever Have Trust Again after All This? 11/01/2018 Q&A Could We Fail If We Don't Reach Ground Zero? 11/01/2018 Q&A Why Won't My Mate Give Me Full Disclosure? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Can I Fix What I've Done? 10/23/2018 Q&A Is Charm Another Form of Pimping Tenderness? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Can I Change Our Dynamic during Separation? 10/23/2018 Q&A Do I Have Enough Information to Ever Fully Trust Him Again? 10/17/2018 Q&A Can We Recover from His Affair If We Live Ten Hours Apart? 10/17/2018 Q&A Should I Disclose My Revenge Affair to My Mate? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Does Desire for Reconciliation Look Like? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth? 8/22/2018 Q&A Do You Think Privacy Has a Place in a Marriage? 8/15/2018 Q&A How Can We Create Safety in Our Situation? 7/11/2018 Q&A How Do I Show My Spouse That I Am Truly Trying to Regain Their Trust? 7/06/2018 Q&A Is This Another Form of Justification and Blame Shifting? 6/27/2018 Q&A Could a Polygraph Help Us Move Forward in Our Healing? 6/27/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Husband Won't Believe Me. How Can We Reach Full Disclosure? 6/08/2018 Q&A Is It Possible That He Is Being Truthful? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust and Become Vulnerable Again? 6/06/2018 Q&A Why Did My Mate Continue to Repeat the Same Patterns with the Affair Partner? 5/21/2018 Q&A Could He Be Telling the Truth? 5/18/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Mates Recovery Isn't Consistent? 5/16/2018 Q&A Can a Person Sincerely Do a ‘180’ on the Way He Treats His Wife after an Affair? 5/07/2018 Q&A Short of a Polygraph, Can I Trust That He's Telling Me the Truth? 5/02/2018 Q&A Is My Wife Addicted to Lying? 4/25/2018 Q&A Do You Think My Mate Is Being Honest with Me? 4/25/2018 Q&A When Will I Begin to Love My Mate Again? 4/18/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Mate Is Struggling to Let Go of the Past? 4/11/2018 Q&A What Should I Focus On? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Go on without Full Disclosure? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Move Forward When Everything Seems Tainted? 4/05/2018 Q&A What Do You Recommend for the Habitual Liar? 4/05/2018 Pages« first‹ previous12345678next ›last »