Recovery Fundamentals Start with the basics when first walking the road to recovery. Developing a systematic plan for recovery will enable you to stick to your basic recovery principles even when things get tough. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Power of Small Groups 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How to Survive Infidelity 1218 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Handle the AP in This Difficult Situation? 12/15/2015 Understanding Female Sexual Addiction: An Interview with a Survivor 12/09/2015 Q&A Why Can't We Talk About It? 12/08/2015 Q&A How Can I Get a Mentor in a Rural Area? 12/08/2015 Q&A How Can it Be Safe With Someone so Selfish? 12/08/2015 Q&A What Can We Do About Nosey Siblings and Holiday Tension? 12/01/2015 Q&A Why Will He Still Not Talk About It? 12/01/2015 Q&A Why Won't He Talk About It? 11/19/2015 Q&A What Does it Mean to Transform Our Pain? 11/17/2015 Q&A Will it Forever Be a Loveless Marriage? 11/17/2015 Affair Recovery Q & A: Answers from an Expert 11/17/2015 Q&A If I Share My Fears With My Spouse, Will That Hold Us Back? 11/10/2015 Q&A What Do You Mean When You Have Us Say... ? 11/10/2015 Q&A What Are the Best Ways to Show Love in the First 18 Months of Recovery? 11/04/2015 Q&A How Do We Keep Our Children Safe If We Run Into My Wife's Affair Partner While At a School Function? 11/04/2015 Q&A My Spouse Is Not Taking Personal Responsibility and May Be a Sex Addict. I Feel Like Giving Up, Should I? 11/04/2015 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Have More Productive Conversations? 11/04/2015 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse Saying, "Why Don't You Just Divorce Me?"? 11/04/2015 Q&A Mentor Couples - What to Do If We Can't Find One? 11/04/2015 What’s the Most Effective Role for Me? 10/27/2015 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Stay Out of Our Old Ruts? 10/27/2015 How Can My Unfaithful Wife Take Initiative In Recovery? 10/27/2015 Q&A How Do We Get Through the Anniversary Date? 10/20/2015 Q&A When Will I Receive the Love I'm Sending? 10/20/2015 Q&A How Can We Heal When Nothing is Being Addressed? 10/06/2015 Q&A What Do I Do With the Pain? 10/06/2015 Q&A Betrayal Begins With You? 10/06/2015 , Is a Marriage Retreat Worth It? Interview with a Pioneer in the Field 9/30/2015 , Is a Marriage Retreat Worth It? Interview with a Pioneer in the Field 9/30/2015 Q&A How do I Transform my Pain? 9/22/2015 Q&A Who Can I Talk to? 9/22/2015 Q&A Why Wouldn't he End it? 9/17/2015 Q&A I Want him to Want me... Will the Feelings Return? 9/17/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't he Talk About it? 9/01/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't he Want it? 9/01/2015 Q&A How can I Tell if I'm Handling this Well? 8/27/2015 Q&A Can I Tell the Affair Partner she's Not Loved? 8/25/2015 Q&A How do Different Grieving Processes Affect Affair Recovery? 8/25/2015 Q&A Where do I Start After Lying for so Long? 8/18/2015 Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Deal with the Shame of the Unfaithful? 8/11/2015 Q&A How Much do I Need to Know? 8/11/2015 Q&A What Affects do Polygraphs have on Recovery? 7/31/2015 The Ashley Madison Hack - Surviving Discovery 7/29/2015 Q&A Will I Ever Believe an Agreement Again? 7/28/2015 Q&A Why Does my Mindset Change from Morning to Night? 7/28/2015 Q&A They had to Know the Affair Would Devastate me, Right? 7/28/2015 Q&A Am I Being Compared to the Affair Partner? 7/20/2015 Social Shame Survey 7/15/2015 Q&A Is it Possible to be Mean to Someone you Love? 7/07/2015 Q&A What Happens 1 Year After D-Day? 7/07/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…171819202122232425next ›last »