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Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How to Survive Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 1218 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Am I Abnormal for Struggling with Healing? 1/28/2021 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Reclaiming Things Associated with the Affair? 1/28/2021 Q&A How Can I Remain Supportive and Loving While Also Protecting Myself? 1/28/2021 Q&A How Do I Know What Is Too Much Information? 1/28/2021 Q&A Can You Help Me Better Understand the Three Stages of Love? 1/28/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal with the Conflict inside of Me? 1/25/2021 Q&A What Happens If I or Both My Husband and I Run into the Affair Partner in Public? 1/25/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Know My Husband's Yellow-Light Behaviors? 1/25/2021 Q&A Can You Clarify the Statement, ‘Don't Rebuild Your Old Marriage. You Must Build Something New’? 1/07/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle In-Laws? 1/07/2021 Q&A Is the Roller Coaster of Emotions Normal? 12/17/2020 Q&A Is It Common to Have Occasional Difficulties with Physical Intimacy, Impotence, or Performance Issues after an Affair? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Do We Deal with past Trauma? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Will I Know I Am Totally Healed? 12/17/2020 Q&A Can You Recommend Resources for My Husband's Issues? 12/17/2020 Q&A Once You Have Done Your Own Work to Heal, How Do You Know If You Should Stay? 12/17/2020 Q&A Should We Express What We Need From Each Other? 12/09/2020 Q&A What Can the Wayward Spouse Do to Help the Betrayed Find Acceptance and Healing? 12/09/2020 The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy 12/02/2020 Q&A How Does the Wayward Spouse Deal with the In-Then-Out Behavior of Their Spouse? 11/24/2020 Q&A How Do I Proceed with Recovery Work When the Betrayed Doesn't Want to Get Help? 11/24/2020 Q&A Is This Ultimatum Unreasonable? 11/18/2020 Q&A Could You Help? 11/18/2020 Q&A Should I Ask Him to Hear My Story? 11/18/2020 Q&A Is It Wrong to Ask My Husband to Understand the Affair Partner's Personality Disorder? 11/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Figure Out What to Do? 11/18/2020 Searching for Truth: Snooping Won’t Help 11/11/2020 Q&A How Do We Deal with Defensiveness? 10/29/2020 Q&A Am I Being Too Hard or Unreasonable? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Would Be a Good Plan for Me Going Forward? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is There Anything Else I Should Be Doing? 10/22/2020 Q&A Should I Suggest to My Spouse That He Take Hope for Healing While I’m Taking Harboring Hope or Should He Be the One to Suggest Taking It? 10/22/2020 Q&A Do You Recommend Sharing the Discovery Week of Harboring Hope with My Wayward Spouse? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Move past the Offense of My Betrayal and into Healing? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Does Moving Forward a Year Later Look Like? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Factors Are Important When Deciding If the Wayward Spouse Needs to Leave a Job to Distance from the Affair Partner? 9/03/2020 Q&A When Is It Appropriate to Communicate to My Spouse That Their Behavior Is Not Acceptable? 9/02/2020 Q&A What Guidelines Can I Share for Friends or Family Who Are Trying to Be Supportive? 9/02/2020 Q&A Is There a Time to Reconcile with Friends Involved in the Affair? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Do We Get past Both Betrayals? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Do You Deal with Your Own Parents and Siblings Not Supporting Your Reconciliation? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Long Is Too Long for Grieving? 9/02/2020 Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Spouse to Comfort the Wayward Spouse? 8/27/2020 Q&A Should We Tell Our Friends? 8/27/2020 Q&A How Can I Believe My Spouse Has Broken off the Affair? 8/27/2020 Q&A What Is a Real Trigger? 8/20/2020 Q&A Would a Polygraph Test Benefit Us? 8/18/2020 Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask for Details? 8/18/2020 Q&A How Can I Best Support My Spouse When They're Having a Difficult Day? 8/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Reengage and Begin Moving Forward Again? 8/18/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…2345678910…next ›last »
