Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 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Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 1062 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is There Hope If the Affair Partner Still Works with My Mate? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Long Is Long Enough? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is It Ok to Withdraw My Commitment to Being Completely Emotionally Honest? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Rekindle the Love for My Mate If They Won't Cooperate? 5/03/2017 Q&A Now That Harboring Hope Is over Do We Tell Our Family or Friends about the Infidelity? 5/03/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Help Reduce the Frequency of Intrusive Imagery? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Triggers When the Affair Partner Is Entangled into Many Aspects of Our Lives? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is There a Point in Staying Married since My Husband Is Visiting His Affair Partner and Their Child? 5/03/2017 Q&A What's Your Advice for Me Now That My Husband Is Working with His Affair Partner Again? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Learn to Cope and Handle the Hurt? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can She Be So Kind Now after the Way She Treated Me Just a Year Ago? 5/03/2017 Q&A What Do I Do with This Anger and Loss of Trust We Had Worked Hard to Gain? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Express Hurt and Anger but Not Shame My Spouse? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Possibly Turn around the Tone and Momentum? 5/03/2017 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 5/03/2017 Q&A Should My Wife Offer Amends and/or Disclosure to Her Ex Husband? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Trust Someone Who Has Manipulated Me So Much? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is Our Church Safe? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is He Relapsing? 4/25/2017 Q&A Should We Change Churches? 4/25/2017 Q&A He Blames His Addiction on My Lack of Connection and I Blame My Lack of Connection on His Addiction. 4/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Be Assertive without Being Aggressive about His Recovery? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Do We Get through This without Being Together? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is It Healthy for Me to Withdraw My Commitment for Complete Honesty? 4/25/2017 Q&A Should I Be Worried That He Hasn't Completed His 4th Step in 18 Months of Recovery? 4/25/2017 Q&A What Is Shaming? 4/25/2017 Q&A Should I Be Worried about a Person from My Mates Past? 4/12/2017 Q&A How Can I Continue to Support Myself and Keep Our Tenuous Truce without Burning Out? 4/12/2017 Q&A When Does Anger Become Emotional Abuse? 4/12/2017 Q&A Am I Being Passive Agressive? 4/12/2017 Q&A Should Communication with Counselors Be Enough for Me to Feel Supported? 4/12/2017 Q&A What does He Need to Do to Get It? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I deal with his lack of empathy? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is my loneliness an excuse to hold onto our marriage? 4/05/2017 Q&A How can I regain trust after this setback? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do we handle the details? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is it a good idea to move out for a temporary separation? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I get my unfaithful spouse to cooperate? 4/05/2017 Q&A What can I do to help my parents understand the level in which I have been hurt? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is there hope or should I follow through with divorce? 4/05/2017 Q&A How can I regain trust after this setback? 4/05/2017 Q&A What does Working Through this in a healthy way look like for me and my children? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I Deal With My Wife’s Ambivalence? 4/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Bring up a Situation I'm Uncomfortable With? 3/29/2017 Q&A Can you Explain the statement ‘Love Acts in the Best Interest of Another person’? 3/29/2017 Q&A Is This as Good as it Gets? 3/29/2017 Q&A What Should I Do about His Behavior towards Me? 3/22/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Him Working Long Distance with My Lack of Trust? 3/22/2017 Q&A How Can She Help Me Rebuild My Trust in Her? 3/22/2017 Q&A Is This a Reasonable Expectation to Ensure Our Son's Safety? 3/22/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…8910111213141516…next ›last »
