Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Problem with Forgiveness Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 1062 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Get beyond This? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings towards the Affair Partner? 8/29/2018 Q&A Will Our Marriage Get Better? 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2 8/29/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with Working with My Spouse's Affair Partner? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Keeps My Betrayed Spouse from Acknowledging Her Lack of Safety in Our Relationship? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Do We Protect Our Children During Recovery? 8/15/2018 Q&A Do You Think Privacy Has a Place in a Marriage? 8/15/2018 Q&A How Can We Heal Our Marriage and Create Safety with Family Members? 8/08/2018 Q&A Should I Cut Ties with Friends That Played a Role in My Mates Affair? 8/01/2018 Q&A Should I Be Concerned about My Mates Behavior Patterns? 8/01/2018 Q&A How Do We Cut Ties with People That Enable Destructive Patterns? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Truly Is Safe? 7/16/2018 Q&A What Do I Do about My Mean Unfaithful Spouse? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Can We Create Safety in Our Situation? 7/11/2018 Q&A Do You Think It Is Important to Confess Infidelity to Parents? 7/06/2018 Q&A Is This Another Form of Justification and Blame Shifting? 6/27/2018 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Mate to Come out of Limerence? 6/27/2018 Q&A How Can We Protect Our Safety Protocol While Traveling? 6/15/2018 Q&A Are There Boundaries That Need to Be Followed as an Accountability Partner? 6/15/2018 Looking for Safety: Harboring Hope 6/12/2018 Q&A Do You Have Additional Resources for Overcoming Gaslighting? 6/08/2018 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Interact with the Family Members That Helped Hide My Mates Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle My Husbands Relapse? 6/07/2018 Q&A Can Someone with Self-Awareness and Boundaries Still Relapse? 6/06/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Spouse Wants Me to Contact the Affair Partner. What Should I Do? 6/06/2018 Q&A My Mate Doesn't Believe I've Disclosed Everything, What Should I Do? 5/23/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Mates Recovery Isn't Consistent? 5/16/2018 Q&A What Do I Do about My Mother-In-Law? 5/16/2018 Q&A Should I Put My Running Shoes on and Get out Now? 5/09/2018 Q&A How Do I Communicate That If He Doesn't Get Help That It's Over? 5/09/2018 Q&A Is This a Sign of My Husband's Lack of Commitment? 5/09/2018 Q&A What Do I Do While Waiting for My Spouse to Be Safe? 5/09/2018 Q&A What Do I Say to Family Members That Would Like Me to File for Divorce? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with a Lack of Safety in Recovery? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Set Safe Boundaries in Our Recovery? 5/07/2018 Q&A Is It Safe for Us to Move? 5/02/2018 Q&A Short of a Polygraph, Can I Trust That He's Telling Me the Truth? 5/02/2018 Q&A Is My Wife Addicted to Lying? 4/25/2018 Q&A Do You Think My Mate Is Being Honest with Me? 4/25/2018 Q&A What Should I Do When My Mate Is Ranting at Me? 4/18/2018 Q&A How Can I Reach Full Disclosure While Protecting Myself from Intrusive Thoughts? 4/18/2018 Q&A What Should I Focus On? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Go on without Full Disclosure? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Can We Protect Ourselves from Relapse? 4/05/2018 Q&A What Are Your Recommendations for My Situation? 4/05/2018 Q&A What Do You Recommend for the Habitual Liar? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Can I Prevent Relapse and Be Safe for My Wife? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Unfaithful Spouse Won't Share the Whole Story? 3/23/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…456789101112…next ›last »
