Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 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Healing After An Affair 1062 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Actions Are Necessary from the Unfaithful during Recovery? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do We Protect Our Young Children during Recovery? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do You Truly Regain Trust? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Things Do the Betrayed Need to Consider When Deciding Whether or Not to Reconcile? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Mate Isn't Trying to Recover? 3/23/2018 Q&A Should I Be Concerned about My Unfaithful Mate's Intrusive Thoughts? 3/12/2018 Q&A Is It Beneficial to Allow Your Mate to Read Your Journal? 3/12/2018 Q&A Could His Behaviors towards His Co-Workers Explain His Disconnection with Me? 3/12/2018 Q&A Is My Husband Safe? 2/28/2018 Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling 2/28/2018 How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018 Q&A What Do I Do with Intense Thoughts during Sexual Interactions? 2/14/2018 Q&A Is It Acceptable Behavior for My Husband to Have a Female Friend? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with On-Going D-Days? 2/14/2018 Q&A How to We Navigate Recovery with a History of Abuse? 2/14/2018 Q&A Is a Separation Unreasonable after Multiple Relapses? 2/14/2018 Practical Tools for Betrayed Spouses 2/14/2018 Q&A How Can We Maintain Safety While Navigating Discovery? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Keep Myself Safe in This Situation? 1/31/2018 Q&A My Spouse Wants a Revenge Affair, What Do I Do? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Does My Mate Turn Their Life Around? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Quit Criticizing My Attempts to Become Independent? 1/23/2018 Q&A Is My Mate Safe for Reconciliation? 1/23/2018 Q&A What Boundaries Need to Be in Place When Traveling? 1/23/2018 Q&A Are We Generating a Pattern of 'Pretend Normal'? 1/23/2018 Q&A Who Do We Tell about the Affair? 1/23/2018 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Personally Do to Discourage a Persistent AP? 1/22/2018 Forgiving Infidelity: What Forgiveness Is NOT 1/18/2018 Q&A Should I Give My Mate Another Chance? 1/10/2018 Q&A How Much Disclosure Is Considered 'Full Disclosure'? 1/10/2018 Q&A What Do You Do When the Affair Partner Won't Let Go? 1/10/2018 Q&A If Relapse Continues, Does the Effort by the Betrayed Even Matter? 1/08/2018 Q&A What Can Affair Recovery Do Tell Help a Compulsive Liar? 1/08/2018 Q&A Should I Just Suck It Up? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Surrender Control? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do You End an Affair with an Unstable Affair Partner? 12/20/2017 Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much in Regards to Safety in Recovery? 12/20/2017 Q&A Is It Time to Move On? 12/20/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Heal from the Massive Anxiety I Am Now Facing? 12/20/2017 Q&A Where Does Self-Love Fit in to the Process of Recovery? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Can I Communicate My Need for Safety in Recovery? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Should I Handle Working with My Affair Partner? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Communicate the Importance of Being Real and Authentic? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Proceed When My Spouse Isn't Safe? 11/28/2017 Q&A When We're Being Sexual, How Can I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Know This Hasn't Happened Before? How Can I Know It Won't Happen Again? 11/28/2017 Q&A Why Would the Unfaithful Shame the Betrayed? 11/22/2017 Q&A How Can I Set Better Boundaries with My In-Laws? 11/22/2017 Q&A What Should I Do If Things Are Getting Worse Rather Than Better? 11/15/2017 Q&A Is My Spouse Really Trying to Disconnect from the Affair Partner? 11/15/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…5678910111213…next ›last »
